The notes are 2 different types of paper I think, the first note has a pattern on the bottom of the sheet of paper, the 2nd one doesn't - if it was the same sheet of paper, with the words written on both sides of the sheet, the page would have a pattern on both sides, yes?
Tagging on your post and others...As my hands have gotten older and less flexible, my handwriting has changed. Before I was briefly a realtor, I had a rather lovely signature, many contracts and associated paper work later, my signature is almost as illegible as my husbands.
I / we have many “love letters” between us. it’s quite possible our children have read them, omg, I have thought about at least censoring some of them, any suggestions?
I am quite sure I am not ready to have my grandchildren read them.
So, it’s possible, many of SM and BMs communications were for their eyes only. Some of ours absolutely! perhaps I could just tear some portions out, too, some of ours are quite lovely, sigh.
My husband and I actually spent lots of tdys, Gulf war, etc. apart, so I doubt the Ms have the volume of letters, we do. whenever there are other eyes around, we tended to keep things a bit more viewable, cards, etc.
I am concerned about the fact BM feels the need to show us these private items. However, if five months of skepticism of his marriage and love of Suzanne has brought him to this point, I just can’t imagine being in his shoes... I’ve been praying for Suzanne from the beginning, lately, I’ve focused more on BM.
Just my pondering for today. I could use true crime or fictional characters, or I can use personal experiences and those of friends, we’ve had 50 threads to destroy this man, w/ minimal evidence.
I’m pretty sure if I were in his shoes, if someone tried to talk me into releasing a few of our letters, I might try anything.
Because, when we bash BM, we actually diminish SM, that’s a problem for me.
I choose to view them as evidence of her goodness.