Found Deceased IA - Xavior Harrelson, 10, Montezuma, 27 May 2021

[SusieQbeam]

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Agree. There is little to go on. Pretty much all we have is that he disappeared. Conflicting information as to who saw him last, what time and under what circumstances. If he took off to chill out because of an argument, it’s been way too long! Please come home Xavior!

I agrèe. IMO, someone disappeared him from that trailer park. From the videos I've watched, it looked like investigators left their home empty handed.

 

[jenn83]

I want to know what Mom says about when she last saw him.

 

[SusieQbeam]

I want to know what Mom says about when she last saw him.

Imo and what I read is that she didn't see him the next morning. Thought he was out playing with friends. MOO

 

[jenn83]

Imo and what I read is that she didn't see him the next morning. Thought he was out playing with friends. MOO

So when she last saw him was when he was going to bed the night before?

 

[SusieQbeam]

Just my opinion.... his mother's silence and silence from LE are deafening

 

[SusieQbeam]

So when she last saw him was when he was going to bed the night before?

MOO, the articles I read sounded like she didn't see him the day he went missing. Idk about the night before.

 

[SusieQbeam]

I hear you. I have seen this before but I don't yet understand the reason for it in this case. In addition to the fact that neither of the parent's names have been disclosed, where the father lives isn't being revealed, the neighbor had to report Xavior missing, the father spoke to a reporter but only off-camera, the mother hasn't spoken publicly at all, LE doesn't disclose who last saw him...all of these things together? Definitely unusual... MOO

If the mother didn't see Xavior and the neighbors didn't see Xavior, who did?

Breaking it down:

Evening of Wed, May 26: There was a heated argument heard by neighbors between Xavior and his mother around 8pm that lasted about 20 minutes.

Morning of Thurs, May 27th: No one from the trailer park saw Xavior outside play

This awesome post gives a good timeline IMO
I'm new at this and PommyMommy's rest of the timeline got cut off. It's back on page 16.

 

[Gobstopper]

If the fight ended abruptly that could indicate that someone was injured. If someone is reluctant to call LE for a missing child would they also be reluctant to call for medical treatment of an injured child? Just MOO. Just thinking about arguments. A heated argument could get physically abusive.
I would also think that neighbors would've heard and mentioned a door slamming if XH had left the trailer after the argument. MOO

 

[Yemelyan]

JMO but when kids have hard home lives and get pushed into caretaker roles for the parents or siblings at tender ages, they tend to become kind of street smart. They also tend to attract the type of abuser who grooms them and gives them attention that the parents can't/don't. Abusers are drawn to this type of situation like bees to honey because they know they can easily obtain emotional dependence of the child and permissiveness from the parent. A parent may or may not be forthcoming with police about these types of relationships because they fear their own potential neglect may be exposed, or the fact that they allowed an abuser access to the child.

I'm sure I'm not the first person to suggest this scenario in the thread, but if Xavior had any way to contact an adult "friend" after a fight with his mom, he could have been picked up by that person in a vehicle. If LE suspect this, it might explain some of their comments/apparent actions. But, this is just one of many possibilities.

 

[mpnola]

It surely seems like pregnant women and kids with a birthday coming soon are oddly high risk populations.....

 

[Hoytie]

Unfortunately, there is absolutely nothing promising thus far for a good outcome in this case other than prayer at this point. I hope I am wrong but a lot of time has passed especially for such a young boy to be missing.

 

[Tealgrove]

So when she last saw him was when he was going to bed the night before?

So that would explain why his description would include that he was wearing pyjama bottoms when he was last seen.

Hmmmm

 

[Gobstopper]

So that would explain why his description would include that he was wearing pyjama bottoms when he was last seen.

Hmmmm

Did anyone see what he was wearing when he was outside during the argument? Before it was taken inside and abruptly ended after approximately 20 minutes? MOO

 

[Inthedetails]

JMO but when kids have hard home lives and get pushed into caretaker roles for the parents or siblings at tender ages, they tend to become kind of street smart. They also tend to attract the type of abuser who grooms them and gives them attention that the parents can't/don't. Abusers are drawn to this type of situation like bees to honey because they know they can easily obtain emotional dependence of the child and permissiveness from the parent. A parent may or may not be forthcoming with police about these types of relationships because they fear their own potential neglect may be exposed, or the fact that they allowed an abuser access to the child.

I'm sure I'm not the first person to suggest this scenario in the thread, but if Xavior had any way to contact an adult "friend" after a fight with his mom, he could have been picked up by that person in a vehicle. If LE suspect this, it might explain some of their comments/apparent actions. But, this is just one of many possibilities.

That's what I (and I assume several others) thought at first too. I'm leaning away from that for now, however.

Jmo, subject to change as we learn more.

 

[bluenoser]

Does the report of him being seen at 11 am the next day still stand?

 

[Tealgrove]

Does the report of him being seen at 11 am the next day still stand?

I don't think so.

The prevailing info is that no one saw him that morning and that's what stands out. It was his usual thing to be riding around on his bike every morning.

MOO

 

[enw10110]

Does the report of him being seen at 11 am the next day still stand?

I think so. I haven't seen differently. I mean... The REPORT of it. Whether or not it actually happened may be a different story. The fact that there's no specific info about it is kind of telling, IMO.

The writing on the wall for this one seems super clear. I'm sure it is for LE too. I think they have a good idea of what happened based on some of the things they've said/done (calling off the search so soon, saying they don't think he's in the area, saying they searched all the places he could go by himself, not issuing any sort of alarm that there's a predator out there and people should be careful...). I think they're just collecting evidence at this point.

IMO

 

[Shamrock1]

My (limited) understanding of manufactured/mobile homes is that there isn’t much storage area (no attics/basements or quaint Victorian nooks & crannies). The skirting/panels under the unit are designed for easy access. There aren’t many areas for a boy to hide, IMO, or be hidden .

 

[zencompass]

https://www.kcrg.com/2021/06/03/fri...-his-mom-as-search-for-missing-boy-continues/

1:28 video time, the News Reporter states:

"At the same time, neighbors say that the yelling was sometimes so significant that sometimes Xavior would try to go to another trailer in the mobile park community to try to get away".

 

[sunshineray]

IMO Yelling matches doesn’t equal an unloving home. My sister and I fought with our parents SO much growing up. It’s not because they didn’t love us. We struggled with our mental health and if you yell at someone long enough, they’re gonna yell back. My parents aren’t bad people or angry people. They had difficult children.

I agree, I grew up in a yelling home also but we always knew we were loved...always. The big difference here I think with Xavier is a boy of young age being the sole caretaker for his Mom and now he turns up missing after the yelling senario I mentioned earlier. His mother is also not the one who reports him missing 12 hours later. My siblings nor myself ever turned up missing after family conflicts. My Gram always told us never go to bed angry and we all took that to heart.