10ofRods
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BBM. About the FB friending: I agree with you that it likely happened on Saturday and after BM caused SM's demise and disposed of her remains. I think it likely BM explored SM's phone and found her "Fifty reasons to leave your husband if his name is Barry Morphew" list. And, seeing that she included among those reasons that he had too many women friends on FB (she said he told her "it was good for business"), he decided he'd better make sure she also had plenty of male friends on FB so that when LE came calling or when the daughters somehow learned of SM's list, he could point out the irrationality of her worries about women FB friends, her having so many male FB friends and all.
It just seems to fit with his many attempts to control the narratives - to his neighbor when SM was non-responsive to attempts by the daughters to contact her ("is her bike missing?"), to his nephew and GD early on ("it's too soon," "LE really messed up the scene"), to his daughter (his putting her in the middle and making it look like Lauren was harassing her when in fact he was using his daughter as a shield), to LE, to Lauren (in response to her interviews with JP and MG - "JP was in prison for NINE YEARS" and she is a "methhead"), to Tyson Draper ("we're thinking a mountain lion may have taken her uphill" - taking care not to puncture her and walking upright, apparently, there being no blood or drag marks), and to the public (his 26-second plea on a wooded mountain by a river, his claims that AM's 700-plus person strong search was a publicity stunt).
This also fits with my pet theory, that Barry spent some time on Saturday (after Suzanne was unconscious or dead), going through all her social media, her journals, etc. He was trying to satisfy himself psychologically, as he was being driven mad by the thought of her affair - which he had known about in some fashion for quite some time. He had begun to track her doings and her online life, she had retreated into What's App and LinkedIn (which probably drove him nuts) and she had sent the fateful "I'm done" message by text.
In that scenario, he literally gets the idea about friending on FB from her grievance list, as you say. He attempts to control the narrative at every level. IMO he told the girls about their mother's affair long before he carried out his plan to remove Suzanne from the family forever.
Before she moved to LinkedIn, she was using texts - and I bet Barry could see them in the Cloud. Even if the texts were not romantic in nature, there were probably too many of them for Barry's liking.