My thoughts on body cam video, 911 call.
It appears Gabby was desperately trying to have the relationship of her dreams. If only she could change, do something better, she would succeed.
Brian, on the other hand, watched Gabby get all the blame for their issues. By not being held accountable for his actions, this teaches him he might either be not guilty or he is immune from consequences. This can be emboldening.
As a mother, one of the hardest lessons I learned was not making excuses for bad behavior. Yes, even when suicide was threatened as a likely way to avoid trouble. After scooping up the suicidal child and getting them in a safe place, we, with psychiatric help, worked at teaching that actions have consequences. As the child learned how to handle emotions and control behavior, a sense of mastery and confidence grew.
It appears that BL never learned these lessons, from parents, and Gabby paid the price after being isolated and convinced that their relationship problems were solely on her shoulders.
MOO.
It appears Gabby was desperately trying to have the relationship of her dreams. If only she could change, do something better, she would succeed.
Brian, on the other hand, watched Gabby get all the blame for their issues. By not being held accountable for his actions, this teaches him he might either be not guilty or he is immune from consequences. This can be emboldening.
As a mother, one of the hardest lessons I learned was not making excuses for bad behavior. Yes, even when suicide was threatened as a likely way to avoid trouble. After scooping up the suicidal child and getting them in a safe place, we, with psychiatric help, worked at teaching that actions have consequences. As the child learned how to handle emotions and control behavior, a sense of mastery and confidence grew.
It appears that BL never learned these lessons, from parents, and Gabby paid the price after being isolated and convinced that their relationship problems were solely on her shoulders.
MOO.