moonlessnight
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Seems like he could have just been jealous of the fact that she was social and had friends. Isolation is step 1. Road trip is a good way to isolate, except for the phone that kept her connected to other people. Control of social contact means control of the phone. I wonder if his intention of the road trip was to kill her all along, or just to establish the control over her that he could continue when they returned. She was not a willing participant. I think Gabby should be remembered as a strong person who fought for herself. Not as someone with a "mental health crisis".
I suspect the fight the police responded to was about her trying to meet up with her friend. If he is described as controlling by her other friend, then perhaps he didn't want her to make that arrangement and she wanted to do so anyways. Hence, why he took her phone and a witness heard her ask "why do you have to be so mean?" I can't see any other reason why he would be so interested in her phone to the point that he would take it and try to ride off in the van.
Perhaps her putting up a fight made him feel like he was losing control over her and she wasn't going to put up with his controlling antics. The park ranger said she encouraged her to rethink that toxic relationship and if she wanted that for herself. Perhaps her fatal end was her trying to leave him for good and he couldn't handle it.