Can you throw a basketball into someone's bushes so that you can go on the property?
Pressing charges is the right thing to do, IMO. Innocent until proven guilty, let the court sort it out.
Something is skeevy here.
It's bad optics to get in trouble on Week 1.
So two adults decided it needed to be done, was a good idea, all things considered. And two people decided which person should do it.
You decide to cross a no trespassing sign, you make EVERY effort IMO to alert the homeowner to your presence. You ring the doorbell, you wait, you ring it again, you knock...
But honestly, you don't do it. Not here, not under these circumstances.
Package had been there what, a long hour? Nice and protected from the elements, from all the other nontrespassing people in the universe.
And no traffic in or out, you'd have to know there's a good chance no one is home, package is going nowhere, unless an angry deer seeks weird revenge. So you reorder or you call your realtor and you handle it through the squeaky-cleanest means you can. Because bail. Because jail. Because notoriety. Because decency. That house languished on the market until a good faith buyer came along and hoped to breathe fresh life into the place, hoped the history would fade and took measures to keep unwanted foot traffic off their newly-aquired private property.
I think we may be missing the worst point, however.
They had other means to right a legitimate wrong.
And didn't.
Which forces me to consider there was something else in play.
If you want access to a property where you know you shouldn't go, you toss your basketball into the bushes....
So.... did they order something, purposefully had it delivered there, to gain access to the property?
Whatever this was about, the new owners bought that house and have every right to expect and enjoy a fresh start -- and the former owner and his paramour put the address back in the news, front and center.
This smells.
JMO