Aside: I should add that I’d have loved to have taken and listened to any of the long form audio clips AH provided, except if she did, the court redacted them; and they’ve in fact redacted JD’s long form audio clips from the trial homepage too over recent days, so only direct links posted here and elsewhere of them will work to pull up the unedited version (happy to be corrected with a pointer if not). As I recently indicated, with the best will in the world I couldn’t make myself commit to all of the four-plus-hour clip; so it’s not like I’ve drunk every word he provided either.
I also agree with
@ZoriahNZ that one may have to know something about DV and people with AH’s particular pathologies, before one can wholly say/agree she is the aggressor and he the one who’s avoidant.
It’s very easy to spew for 60-something pages as she does particular anecdotes in which that men are abusive, whether they are or in fact are not, if you have that kind of heinous imagination. Her former assistant even said, unprompted, that AH co-opted a hideous sexual assault she herself experienced; and pretended that JD had been the perpetrator to AH.
