Contrary to popular believe, we are not out here with pitchforks. I hope that after all this that both JD and AH have/get the help they need to move on and live a happy healthy life. MOO
"I hope that after all this that both JD and AH have/get the help they need to move on and live a happy healthy life. MOO"
AMEN to that.
Both of these people need private personal time and responsible therapy. And find good friends who will keep them away from substances to abuse and help get them into a good place physically and emotionally.
IMHO, only, that neither of them should be starting up any new romances for a long time, until they are well-healed and coming from a place of strength, not weakness or substance abuse.