I have stranger DM's right in my regular inbox. That being said, I only have about 20 messages total after more than two years. I don't even see a request folder because I do not think anyone has requested to follow me (I do not restrict followers as I don't expect any or many). So I guess it depends on how it is set up.
Personally, I don't believe that Kaylee or Maddie restricted followers, especially considering how many thousands they got after they died.
I have stranger DM's right in my regular inbox. That being said, I only have about 20 messages total after more than two years. I don't even see a request folder because I do not think anyone has requested to follow me (I do not restrict followers as I don't expect any or many). So I guess it depends on how it is set up.
Personally, I don't believe that Kaylee or Maddie restricted followers, especially considering how many thousands they got after they died.
MOO- when my IG profile was public I received messages in my regular inbox from non followers (meaning people who didn’t follow me and I didn’t follow).. with my regular DM’s.
When I switched it to private, I no longer saw those messages in my normal DM inbox, they were sent to message requests and I received no notification of message request. (All of this depends on each individual persons profile settings on messages , even if private or public it can be adjusted as far as I know)…
Anyway I Purposely had to look in that message request folder to find new message request…after switching my account to private. It can be weeks or months after they were sent before I think to check my message request box.
Point is… I agree with the likelihood of the girls profiles being public, if he was using a normal IG account and that IG had not been restricted as possible spam account (which even if public profile, those go to message request box you don’t automatically see due to IG’s restriction on possible spam accounts) then the messages from BK most likely went to the girls normal DM inbox, where they would like be notified of the message he sent.
But like most people…. I believe the girls just ignored it because they didn’t know him. Did not think too much of it, besides the obvious reaction which would be this guy seems creepy… why is he messaging me? I’d assume they thought If they ignored it he would stop.
However…..
MOO - I think many are assuming the messages he sent were to KG. Which I personally think is an incorrect assumption. I believe the messages reportedly sent via IG were to X or M.
If it were X…. And it made her feel uncomfortable and she shared with E , I believe it’s very possible he messaged BK back and simply said “stop sending my GF messages”.
If it were M…. And she and K were hanging out and M mentions all these weird messages she keeps getting from this stranger… I also think that KG could have easily messaged him back and said “hi , this is M’s best friend K and I want you to stop messaging M bc it’s making her uncomfortable”
From family interviews of KG , my interpretation of their comments on her and her personality… the family repeatedly says how good of a friend she was. How she was always ready to help her friends with anything, was strong and not easily intimidated but cautious and aware of her surroundings and vulnerabilities of young women living in a house together.
If M told her about the messages… I think K would see it as more serious than M and think it needed to be handled and he needed to know he couldn’t keep sending messages to M. As a protective best friend stance.
In the people magazine article on the IG messages… correct me if I’m wrong here… it never mentions whether or not he ever received a message back. I think many are assuming there was no response back to him and I believe it’s possible there was… and that’s the point he truly cracked and decided to commit these horrific crimes.
Which is why I believe these IG messages are so important to the case and could help explain a lot of unanswered questions on motive.
If whoever received the DM’s through IG did in fact communicate back with BK in any form or rejection… or one of their friends or boyfriends sent a message asking BK to stop sending messages…. That could easily have been when stalking turned into planning a horrific murder.
Again. As always. MOO- very speculative thoughts and I could be completely wrong about all.