The "Affair"

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That's true, Fran. Plus, she was even more isolated living in a different country and everything.
 
less0305 said:
N.C. is one of the last few states that still has an Alienation of Affection law on the books. I type depositions as a side job and people get sued quite frequently for alienation of affection. There have been some whopper settlements and court awards for alienation of affection. A woman in Burlington N.C. was awarded $1 million from her husband's mistress. I think a case in Winston-Salem the wife was awarded like half a mil from her husband's secretary.
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Alienation of Affection may be a civil law, but I doubt people go to jail for it.
 
I am still a newbie here, so let me know if I am overstepping it here. BUT I looked over this link again about the other woman. After watching HB over and over and over...I noticed she wouldn't look at the camera directly or the interviewer, especially in the second part of the clip. This could be just from nerves though. Also she only talks of being "scared" and how it is "scary". I think they were supposed to be good friends and she stated that she would "see her out running alot". If they were good friends, I would think she would have more contact with her than to see her out running.
Anyway, I would never suggest she was the other woman, but out of all of interviews with friends and neighbors, hers seemed odd.
 
sugarbritches said:
I am still a newbie here, so let me know if I am overstepping it here. BUT I looked over this link again about the other woman. After watching HB over and over and over...I noticed she wouldn't look at the camera directly or the interviewer, especially in the second part of the clip. This could be just from nerves though. Also she only talks of being "scared" and how it is "scary". I think they were supposed to be good friends and she stated that she would "see her out running alot". If they were good friends, I would think she would have more contact with her than to see her out running.
Anyway, I would never suggest she was the other woman, but out of all of interviews with friends and neighbors, hers seemed odd.
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I completely agree with you, Sugarbritches. When I watched that video clip, I thought the exact same thing. JMO, but she really didn't seem that concerned or distraught. Very strange.
 
fran said:
Interesting less0305

IMHO, this COULD go to (part of) MOTIVE.


Motive
Means
Opportunity

Just sayin',:rolleyes:
fran
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Depending upon her lawyer - he may have mentioned to her, even jokingly, that she could sue the "other woman" for alienation of affection. Would she have threatened that to him? Hmmmm, food for thought.
 
http://www.wral.com/news/local/video/3213403/

:59 second mark - Heather Benicek

"shock, huge shock" - watch her "micro expressions".


Video Titled - Nancy Cooper's death ruled homicide

http://abclocal.go.com/wtvd/story?se...cal&id=6267674

4:10 second mark - Heather Benicek

"makes you feel sad" - while shaking her head and smiling

Her words really don't match her body language. IMO

Does anyone know this woman? I saw in some other posts that NC may have ran a race with a Heather B. and finished at the same time (old friend?).
 
Someone from the #8 thread assures us this is not the Heather with whom he is having an affair.
 
Topsail Girl said:
I do and I can tell you for fact that he did have a little tart named Heather that he was boinking but it is NOT Heather Benicek. I can not reveal how I know this and I have no link so you have to choose to believe me or not. Again I repeat it is NOT Heather Benicek.
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From #8
 
excelguy said:
From #8
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Topsail said someone else may have nailed it. Let's see...A friend of Nancy's named Heather who also works at Cisco.

Likely Heather M. who ran the 5K with NC in 2004 and also works at Cisco.

But that's based on what Topsail implied. I have no other reason for thinking it.
 
sues said:
Topsail said someone else may have nailed it. Let's see...A friend of Nancy's named Heather who also works at Cisco.

Likely Heather M. who ran the 5K with NC in 2004 and also works at Cisco.

But that's based on what Topsail implied. I have no other reason for thinking it.
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Hey Sues,

I'm not the first poster to bring up Heather M and Heather B or the Cisco connection. I'm sorry I can't recall who did, but it wasn't me. I just agreed that I knew of the Cisco connection. :)
 
Topsail Girl said:
Hey Sues,

I'm not the first poster to bring up Heather M and Heather B or the Cisco connection. I'm sorry I can't recall who did, but it wasn't me. I just agreed that I knew of the Cisco connection. :)
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Sorry to misquote you TG.
 
sues said:
Sorry to misquote you TG.
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Not a problem at all. :) I admitted to knowing the connection and it is true. I mostly admitted to it because I was hoping it would put a stop the the Heather B accusations. Brad has known this Heather for about 4 years, there is a Cisco connection between all people involved except Nancy. Heather B is/was a friend of Nancy's but not Brad's fling. I am sorry I can't recall where I read the original theory about it but it was either here or in the Link numbered 8.
 
A few days ago there was a link on the isabellacooper.com site that was for HM and her husband (at the time, I guess, if they are divorced).

I used that link on the Wake County property records website to find out whether HM lived in Cary, and sure enough, her house is listed at an address that is 1.3 miles from the Coopers house.

So I figured that HM could be the Heather, but I wasn't sure.

Now the isabella cooper site seems to be gone.

SH is an IT analyst, according to this: http://www.linkedin.com/pub/1/317/b26 and according to Google ("[SH]" cary north carolina), is also an athlete (triathlons and half ironman competitions). He and BC have a lot in common, it seems.

I guess BC has been busy.

Respectfully,
RC
 
Just wanted to point out that whoever the affair was with, I would be surprised if she was involved with the murder (not impossible, just less likely). That said, she very well may have information that could help with the case.
 
A few tidbits from this post and the net.

http://www.runraleigh.com/2004_racer..._empire_5k.htm

HM and NC finished a 5k race in 2004 with exactly the same time (running together?)

http://rodweb02.co.wake.nc.us/books/...ocId=107586649

HM is listed on separation papers (she was/is married to SH)

http://center.spoke.com/info/index-person/hb-he-128

SH lists his employer as Cisco

http://center.spoke.com/info/index-person/hb-he-128

HM lists her employer as Cisco

http://64.233.169.104/search?q=cache...lnk&cd=5&gl=us

Picture on a "book club" profile with title HM (listed as Cary, NC)
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