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Is your kid a bully? These warning signs may help.
Some common misconceptions may lull the parents of bullies into failing to recognize warning signs.
Bullies are often star athletes or popular girls considered charismatic leaders by peers and adults, experts say. Whats often missed or passed over as minor is a consistent pattern of control and aggression against other kids behavior that socially savvy bullies can sometimes slide under the radar of grown-ups.
Its not what we typically think of. Its not always the kid whos pushing kids down on the playground, says Rosalind Wiseman, who wrote Queen Bees and Wannabes, the basis for the movie Mean Girls.
Its children who feel like theyre the law of their school, that they have the right to set the law and if you challenge their power, like hooking up with the wrong boy, they have the right to put you in your place.
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Great read--four-page article that says that most children who emerge as bullies began to have "control" when they were young, and they emerge as leaders in school; that their bullying couldn't be possible without "wannabes" to carry out the actions. Talks about the misconception of who bullies are. Hope everyone takes time to read it.
Even if your kid isn't a leader of a group, you may see signs that he or she is involved with a bully and you can stop it.
http://www.houmatoday.com/article/20100413/ARTICLES/100419841?p=4&tc=pg
Some common misconceptions may lull the parents of bullies into failing to recognize warning signs.
Bullies are often star athletes or popular girls considered charismatic leaders by peers and adults, experts say. Whats often missed or passed over as minor is a consistent pattern of control and aggression against other kids behavior that socially savvy bullies can sometimes slide under the radar of grown-ups.
Its not what we typically think of. Its not always the kid whos pushing kids down on the playground, says Rosalind Wiseman, who wrote Queen Bees and Wannabes, the basis for the movie Mean Girls.
Its children who feel like theyre the law of their school, that they have the right to set the law and if you challenge their power, like hooking up with the wrong boy, they have the right to put you in your place.
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Great read--four-page article that says that most children who emerge as bullies began to have "control" when they were young, and they emerge as leaders in school; that their bullying couldn't be possible without "wannabes" to carry out the actions. Talks about the misconception of who bullies are. Hope everyone takes time to read it.
Even if your kid isn't a leader of a group, you may see signs that he or she is involved with a bully and you can stop it.
http://www.houmatoday.com/article/20100413/ARTICLES/100419841?p=4&tc=pg