Rita:
Your posts always manage to humble me and show me how I "should" be facing challenges in life. Your children, your husband, your family and friends are blessed by your grace. You are one amazing woman, bless you.
You may take this sentiment back after my next post...
I am trying REALLY hard to live up to what God wants from me, what I know Mom would expect from us, but I am so sick and tired and beyond able to cope with what keeps being handed to us. Weeks and weeks of thinking there couldn't possibly be worse news or more to deal with, and yet every week, there's something new, worse than the last. Every single week.
I know that I should never take my focus off the fact that the few evil people in this are beyond overshadowed by the love and help and compassion shown to our family. But at the end of every day, there is still one fact - SHE IS GONE. She shouldn't be gone. It's not fair to her, it's not fair to us, it's so, so not fair to our kids. We don't get tp look at her face one last time. We don't know what exactly happened to her out there. We don't even know the date that she died, to be able to put that in an obituary or on her headstone.
BUT...you try to bury all that. You try to focus on God and your family, because they are what matters THE ABSOLUTE MOST. For your family's sake, you try to be a good example, and make the right choices, even if it's not the "fair" thing in all this. Well...today I've had it - I think we all have.
If there is a single person on God's green earth who thinks that EK has a single shred of decency left in his body, YOU MAY WANT TO GET YOUR HEAD CHECKED.
It's all about the money...always about the money...
What was that statement you made EK? Something like, "I may not have loved Pat anymore, but I still love her as the mother of my children." LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL
Who wrote that line for you buddy?? There is no way you came up with THAT on your own, and your actions, time after time after time, prove what the bottom line is to you - $$$$$$$.
"Your children" are going thru HELL right now, and still trying to function, and you want "your" money back, you want to lay on us another load of legal crap and all that involves. You got what you wanted, SHE'S GONE, now you just have to shove it in our faces. Well, guess what, we're gonna stand up for her, TO YOU, 'til this thing is done.
And what I REALLY want to know, EK, is this: do you have some information that makes you think YOU know the date she died? Because if you do, I'd certainly like to know how you came by that information.