I don't feel I have read anything that indicates her relationship with family was bad. They say they were in contact through facebook and that she texted with them frequently. I know my family lives in the same town as I do and we are all close, however we use facebook to keep up with each other and sometimes we get caught up in all the stuff of life and weeks can easily slip by. If everyone is busy we can sometimes think back and find a month or six weeks has passed since we talked or were in contact. It is just life nowadays and doesn't make me think relationships were bad, estranged, etc.
I just think maybe they let some time pass and then tried to contact her and couldn't reach her but did not think something bad was happening. Just thought she was busy...then still no contact and they got concerned. Hindsight, you know?
I have read nothing except the one comment that indicates anything out of the ordinary. Ignore that comment and what do you have?
A young mother, pregnant, going to school full time, and working.
A toddler being cared for by grandma because mom is loaded down and she could help with him. Daycare is not cheap, they may not have wanted to leave him with a stranger while she was in classes, working, studying. Doesn't really leave much time for her to spend with him anyway. Not what a lot of us would have done, but that doesn't make it wrong or bad. I think her family may have been very supportive. If she was in a different town for school she probably did not have a support system there. She may not have had anyone to help care the child, especially with all the hours she was putting in.
I am feeling like this girl had a great family and a great husband and something bad happened to her. Something related to her, new town, apt, school.
I think she was probably expected to see her husband off at the airport and didn't make it because something happened to her. Family/husband may have though she was late, forgot when the plane was leaving, over slept etc. Lots of innocuous possibilities that wouldn't mean something was wrong.
I am not ready to believe she had a man on the side that she was living with either. Someone from school could have posted that making assumptions about a boyfriend but he could have easily been just a roommate. They did sound like they had inside information but that is the only comment and no where else is anything mentioned.
Hubby deploys, comes home for R&R, they go to Hawaii, they come back and stay with her grandparents, she heads back to school (after spending what sounds like every minute she could with him since classes had started already) and he is getting ready to fly out. She also needed to pack to move for whatever reason. Eviction, no longer has a roommate and can't afford it alone, doesn't want to sign a lease when she has so little time until graduating. Lots of reasons!
. She would NOT be eligible to live on base.