I first heard about Lisa because a friend had posted the Amber Alert on FB. I used to live in a suburb of KC, so it felt kind of close to home. KWIM?
I mentioned it at class that same night to several class mates. Do you know what every single class mate said to me? Basically the sentiment was, why does everyone put out these alerts and start up a media frenzy because it's always the mother or father, usually the mom.
We didn't have any statements from DB/JI yet. However, a significant portion of the public already had their mind made up. Now, as we hear even more information, it becomes too easy to look at all of the information through "the mom did it"-tinted glasses. Everything ends up going through that filter. I also think many in the public, including posters here, are still pissed about the CA trial. I completely understand as I was pissed after that trial as well. However, I believe that some of that anger is being misdirected onto this case.
It could go either way IMO. I'm still on the fence. I agree with IndaMiddle. Sometimes the boogieman does exist and sometimes that boogieman is not Mommy or Daddy.
Anyway, just sad for Lisa and rambling... IMO, MOO :twocents: and all that..
I played devils advocate throughout the 'other case'....(much to the annoyance and frustration of many WS members. I'm sure I ended up on more than one 'ignore' list LOL.)
I was always concerned that it may result in a NG verdict. I was neither shocked nor pissed, because I was prepared for it. Even though I felt she was guilty I wasn't convinced it was as slam-dunk as many others did.
Lisa's case has been completely different for me. I have never had such a strong gut reaction before.
4.15 of this video was when that gut feeling began. I just feel that at that point when she closes her eyes, she is seeing Lisa dead
again. Like it's replaying in her mind, over and over.
[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0Lmy0Q5U_k&feature=player_embedded"]Baby Lisa's Parents Take Questions From Reporters - YouTube[/ame]
I hoped that my feelings would change with time, and that I could be that annoying devils advocate again regardless of my gut feelings. But with each interview I see, and each different story I hear out of Db's own mouth, that feeling gets stronger and stronger....and it fits logically.
I do 'think' DB played a role in Lisa's disappearance, but am not so narrow-minded that I cannot embrace the possibility of an abduction if any evidence points in that direction.
I would love nothing more than to hear that Lisa was abducted by some unstable but well-meaning person who just wanted a baby to love, and that she will be returned safe and sound. I won't give up hope, but that doesn't change my current feeings. I also don't discount any theories of a ill-meaning abductor.
All of these options are possible IMO.
IIRC DB herself stated that she had followed several cases and always thought it was the parents, so I don't understand what all the fuss is about, and why she should expect to be treated any differently.
As long as LE is following all leads and being thorough in the investigation in order to
find Lisa, that's all that matters.
Praying she is found soon.
rayer:
MOO
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