http://images.bimedia.net/documents/Decl+of+Solomon+Metalwala.pdf
I broke down some of the stuff in the doc. for those that can't read it:
She was not eating right (SM would bring her food so she would eat after he got home) One time she even passed out and neighbor called medic's.
She was not sleeping right.
She was depressed, bi-polar and Severe OCD per 2 doctors.
She would not keep food in the house and would call her husband to come get M. because M. was hungry.
She made M. sleep until 2pm.
She would not leave the house often or allow company to come over.
She made them moved from house to house because she was not comfortable. which caused them to loose the condo because it was intended for a rental.
She wanted pill's not any other alternatives. Later saying she never needed those pills and he forced her to take them.
She got severally worse after Sky was born.
She would not take M. to preschool forcing the husband too.
She made them all wear the same clothes everyday washing them each night not to upset the closet's.
Would not allow them to sleep in bed because it was a "perfect place" forcing them all to sleep on the floor in the living room.
Would not allow dad to say goodnight to M. for fear of dirt traveling around, he was only allowed in the bathroom and living room (soon after though he was not even allowed to go into the bathroom)
She started having dreams of strangling the youngest Sky.
She developed a unusual bond with her daughter.
She would make statements that M. would repeat back like a parrot. Most famous one was " I am going to kill myself"
She would bribe the daughter with toys ect. to get her to do what she wanted. bribed her with a dollhouse and let her play on her bike knowing she would not choice dad over those things.
after they lost the house he moved in with his mom and brother with the kids, mom moved in with her friend SO.
They were granted shared custody in sep. 2010, she became very angry
She retaliated against him frequently after this falsely (I say this because it was proven he did not do those things) pointing the finger at him 5 times each getting worse then the other.
M. started saying things like "the car belongs to mom, the store belongs to mom you took it away" and she stated he "took the condo away"
He thought she might be suffering from Munchhausen hurting the kids to draw attention to herself and blaming it on the dad. He passed the Poly regarding this abuse.
His greatest fear is that she will hurt herself and/or the kids.
She wanted more money ($500) a month. Even filed contempt of court on him when he missed 1 payment, which he has since payed.
She wanted stuff from the house he believes he does not have. He offers to take her attorney through the house to check.
Hope this helps some...MOO