Ok I want to post something about the affairs. TM was not the only person GBC had had affairs with, I was told that he had had numerous affairs, trysts etc and that the marriage was done and dusted partly because of the continual cheating and the final straw was that he was stupid enough to get someone pregnant.
NOW please don't jumped to conclusions about there being any baby in the works, that could have happened ages ago and not been a recent event, I was just told that was the final straw in regards to the marriage. Maybe the person lost the child, maybe they miscarried, maybe it was aborted who knows. I'm just trying to point out there is a pattern of behaviour here and I don't think that TM would have been under any illusion that he was the love of her life and going to be a happy, faithful and committed partner to her if he left Allison. His track record shows his true colours, people like that don't change.
The 9 news story tonight confirmed that he had several affairs, whether they were happening now or in the past they didn't say but there is a definite pattern of behaviour here and I don't think any of his lovers would have been under any illusions.