I have no reason to ring the police but if i ever did have to i would ring 000 because i have no idea what the local number is. I have nothing against the police but i have been in a situation before where the nosey neighbours called the police because my husband and i were arguing. It had nothing to do with them and they would call the police almost every day. It got to the stage where we had to move away because too many troublemakers lived in the street. I put up with domestic violence for almost 6 years and would still do ANYTHING to be back with my ex. I loved him and still do love him more than anything in the world but it was embarrassing having the police turn up all the time because of interfering neighbours.:banghead: :banghead: :banghead:
I find this post a real worry Angel1. I get what you mean about being annoyed at nosey neighbours, but do you not think that they might have just cared about your welfare?
The only experience I had (many many years ago) with neighbours calling the police, I was sooo grateful that they did. I think I was screaming for help, as my baby daughter was in the house, and my ex was barricading me from re-entering. There wasn't actually any physical violence going down at the time, but it was fast escalating to that point every time I tried to get inside, and there had been some serious threats involved.
The neighbours acted quickly and yelled that they had called the police so he took off, thank goodness. I was very relieved when the police turned up, though they were fairly blase about it, as he hadn't actually hit me or anything. They told me that most threats made are not carried out, which may be true, but at the time, it didn't give me much comfort.
That was the absolute last straw for me. I had actually already broken up with the guy, which is what had started the whole thing. He was supposedly there to retrieve his belongings. It was embarrassing, but I was really glad the neighbours had acted on what they heard.
I am certainly not trying to have a go at you for your post. I just find it really concerning that you'd want to be back with a guy who was violent to you for 6 years. Nobody should ever have to put up with that sort of thing in their life. Please, please take care Angel.