Nurmi questioning Jodi - Part 2.
Did Travis always pay you for cleaning his house? Yes, in one form or another; sometimes he paid cash, sometimes he paid my expenses when we traveled together; he kept very careful track of what he owed.
Where did you have sex with TA? Sometimes in my car, in parking lots; sometimes when we traveled; sometimes at my house in Mesa, in my bedroom. Anywhere else? Yes on the front porch [of my house]. That was something he wanted to try, he had a list of fantasies. He wanted to drive up to my house, I would come outside, porch in Mesa was private, light from streetlight, it was late at night, he wanted oral sex and to ejaculate on my face, then he would leave without saying a word. We did this twice. The first time we talked the next day. The second time he dropped a Toblerone [candy bar] and I called him later that night. So he ejaculated on your faced, threw some candy at you and left? Yes; I’m embarrassed talking about this in front of my mom and dad.
Describe his other fantasies? He wanted to do “mile high” which we never did; wanted to pull off highway and have sex on hood of car, but we never did; we did have vaginal sex while driving down the highway. He wanted me to wear boy’s underwear and have anal sex. He had a lot of nice suits and shirts and wanted me to perform oral sex in his office while wearing his suits; we did this many times. He had lots of anal sex fantasies.
How did it make you feel [wearing boy’s underwear & having anal sex]? It didn’t bother me, I enjoyed it because I wanted to be with him, I wanted him to be happy, and he paid attention to me. Did he treat you differently during these encounters? When he was in the mood he was very nice and pad attention to me, sometimes he was loving and romantic, but when he was done, he was done, he wasn’t mean but he was done being nice. He became nice whenever he wanted sex.
Why was it okay to have a clandestine relationship? I was in love with him, I am a monogamous person, I had no room in my heart for anyone else. Did you think it was not, I need to end it? Sometimes. Did you Travis [that]? Eventually, yes.
After August of ’07 where did you travel with TA? Las Vegas for Executive Directors’ convention [of PPL]; then to Havasupai; in October of ’07 to Albuquerque, then Santa Fe, we saw Rte. 66; all places from the 1000 Places book. Nurmi enters two exhibits, 1) picture of Jodi & Travis at Executive Directors’ banquet, 2) at balloon fiesta in Albuquerque in October ’07. Jodi says it is hard to look at these pictures [crying], we had a bad fight at the balloon fiesta but things got better and the trip turned out good. We were acting as a couple there, but things changed when we returned to Mesa, unless we were in his room, he was affectionate only when we were in his room. [Sex] on the porch, he was not affectionate, I felt like a prostitute, but I put that thought out of my mind, chalked it up to one of his little antics. Did you ever feel you were done with his antics? Down the line, but the antics increased
Was he physically abusive up to this point, October 2007? He grabbed my wrist in Oklahoma in March 2007 [at convention]. I was heading for the restroom when I saw Abe, a guy I had dated. We talked briefly, he said “you deserve better,” I said thank you, it’s okay. When I returned to Travis I tried to take his hand but he grabbed my wrist, but not painfully. When he began to talk, I realized he was angry, I could tell by his demeanor and words, he spoke sternly. Was he angry about you speaking to Abe? Yes, he wanted to know what we were talking about, he became more angry.
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