sarah7855
Where is Kyron?
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From what we've heard, Terri would often tell one story to one person & a different story to another person. Without knowing the context of the email Desiree is referring to, it's hard to say what Terri was trying to portray. Like - she might have been claiming that Kaine was angry that morning (like she was pointing the finger at him, and away from herself) - or she was playing the victim (my husband is so awful), or maybe she was flirting with some guy (our marriage is over, we fight all the time), or maybe she was trying to get sympathy from her parents, etc etc. And maybe they did fight, as in argue or get snippy with each other, and Kaine was so used to low level conflict it didn't even register. It could be anything. And to Desiree, so desperate to put the pieces together into a story of what happened to Kyron, maybe she's giving the mention of an argument a lot more weight than Kaine did. ?? Just a thought.
About Terri hating Kyron - I mean have you ever read those 'step-parent' forums? Oh my gosh, when someone mentioned those here before and I read some of the forum posts it was sickening. There is SO much resentment out there for step children. So much. I couldn't believe it, would never have imagined the level of resentment and I'd even go so far as to say "hatred" some of the posters had for their step children. And there were so MANY of them posting that stuff! It was an eye opener. I didn't know people like that existed, nevermind were so common. Ugh.
Just have to say, I really enjoy your posts, they are very well stated! Thanks for all your contributions in regards to Kaine and TH's possible argument, I think your idea makes a lot of sense. Low level conflict that didn't even register to him while on her end, it was a possible way to draw attention away from herself.
I've never read any of the "stepparent" forums, but I cannot imagine a person having such hatred for a child period. A person that would is a monster, IMO.