marylandmissing
Well-Known Member
- Joined
- Dec 17, 2004
- Messages
- 371
- Reaction score
- 378
No one may notice him missing for quite a while…A lot of people who hike the AT starting in March and don’t finish till September…Lots don’t keep in touch with their family so if he told them he was hiking it again they won’t look for him for a while…Also, there’s actually a lifestyle called Nomads that a lot of thru hikers fall into…Many, after doing a thru hike, just don’t go back to normal life…They move on to other thru hikes and often disappear down to South America and other continents to thru hike there…
I’m very familiar with the hiking community and have seen numerous people start as casual walkers and become hikers like this…I highly suspect he falls into one or two categories that I’ve seen several times over…One is recovering addicts/alcoholics…Lot of thru hikers are in this category…They get clean and often times become gym rats and start doing marathons and get into hiking…Doing a lot of long distance hikes in 1-2 year recovery isn’t uncommon…Many feel the need to get away, clear their head, that hiking provides peace of mind, and so on…With him being 83 pounds, I’ve been wondering if this guy may have been recovering from a stimulant addiction and fell back into it…Meth addicts are known to be this skinny…Addicts often die from other means than overdosing such as getting skinny to the point of no body fat and freezing or having heat strokes faster than anyone else…The fact that the Sheriff’s department hasn’t really said any causes of death makes me suspect they’ll find something like this…
Second thing I’ve seen that causes males to hit the trails like this is divorce…People’s identities are tied up in being spouses and parents when married, and often in divorces there’s a need to “find” oneself again…I’ve seen at least 9 guys now that went through a divorce become thru hikers…They pretty much said look my whole life was tied up being a dad and a husband…I was a good husband/Dad…I worked, came home and mowed the lawn and took the kids to soccer…That was my whole life…I wasn’t the one who cheated, I didn’t ask for this…It was too painful to stay…I was a 24 hour a day dad and now I see my kids 4 days a month…I give my ex-wife equivalent to a mortgage every month when she’s married and got someone else playing daddy to my kids…I didn’t get a penny for the house and she’s got him living there and I’m living in a rented room…And now the only person looking for them is the child support bureau…
I’m very familiar with the hiking community and have seen numerous people start as casual walkers and become hikers like this…I highly suspect he falls into one or two categories that I’ve seen several times over…One is recovering addicts/alcoholics…Lot of thru hikers are in this category…They get clean and often times become gym rats and start doing marathons and get into hiking…Doing a lot of long distance hikes in 1-2 year recovery isn’t uncommon…Many feel the need to get away, clear their head, that hiking provides peace of mind, and so on…With him being 83 pounds, I’ve been wondering if this guy may have been recovering from a stimulant addiction and fell back into it…Meth addicts are known to be this skinny…Addicts often die from other means than overdosing such as getting skinny to the point of no body fat and freezing or having heat strokes faster than anyone else…The fact that the Sheriff’s department hasn’t really said any causes of death makes me suspect they’ll find something like this…
Second thing I’ve seen that causes males to hit the trails like this is divorce…People’s identities are tied up in being spouses and parents when married, and often in divorces there’s a need to “find” oneself again…I’ve seen at least 9 guys now that went through a divorce become thru hikers…They pretty much said look my whole life was tied up being a dad and a husband…I was a good husband/Dad…I worked, came home and mowed the lawn and took the kids to soccer…That was my whole life…I wasn’t the one who cheated, I didn’t ask for this…It was too painful to stay…I was a 24 hour a day dad and now I see my kids 4 days a month…I give my ex-wife equivalent to a mortgage every month when she’s married and got someone else playing daddy to my kids…I didn’t get a penny for the house and she’s got him living there and I’m living in a rented room…And now the only person looking for them is the child support bureau…