Lack of Automatic Rights
Without being married to the child’s mother, there is no presumption under the law that you are the baby’s father. If you do not legally establish your parentage, you will lack rights in regard to the infant. Your name will not be on the birth certificate and you will not have the right to go to court to seek custody or visitation. Your child cannot also not benefit from you, such as being on your health insurance, receive veterans’ benefits, or inherit your assets when you pass away.
Establishing You Are the Father is Necessary
If you want to be active in your child’s life, you should establish parentage as soon as possible. You can do this in two ways: signing an Acknowledgement of Paternity (AOP) or having a genetic test performed. An AOP is an entirely voluntary form that both you and the mother must sign in front of a witness. These are usually available at the hospital. However, it can be filled out later. If you are not 100 percent sure you are the father, you should have a genetic test performed. You can either pay for this test through a private lab or you can open a case with child services and have the test analyzed at a state lab.