LOL, so abstr, what you're saying to me is that despite my North American commoner status, I'm still going to encounter royal family style name issues.
I'm glad you found your prince!!
Maybe one day I'll find mine and if I do I'll suggest that we just buy a Title of Nobility and not deal with our original names.
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Lady or Baroness would be lovely.
However, I'm not sure if it would be formally recognized here or if the Queen of Canada would need to approve it. Sigh.
As for the Mountbatten/Windsor combination, I personally find the two names capture the simultaneous history and change in the relationship and future of a family and nation (Germany and the U.K.). Windsor telling the U.K. and the world that they are their own people now, and Mountbatten says we are on your territory now, new rules, new emerging culture.