MsBetsy
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Well, his wife claimed her Godmother introduced them but LE said there was evidence of him using a stolen laptop to find a wife.Couple of thoughts here ...
I'm guessing the "wife" involved a cash transaction. She's in Texas, he's in Utah, she has told the news media she never had sex with him. Not sure I've seen anything about him living in Texas.
I'm not suggesting they didn't meet online but I do think they are both likely to have been in downtown SLC bars at the same time. I think the evidence is that they didn't meet through an arrangement site. Women on arrangement sites aren't looking to meet a 31 year old -- that's called regular dating. His pictures don't make him look successful. While I think he can scam for a bit, I don't think he could pull off an online conversation for long enough to convince her he was a successful educated guy. He had her real number which in my experience is very unusual The pay per interview media has been in SLC -- I'm sure they'd pay a lot to someone who communicated with him through an arrangement site but we've heard nothing on that -- not even a screenshot. She was an attractive 23 year old college student -- she wouldn't need to meet someone at 3 AM to have an ongoing arrangement. They aren't connected on Venmo. The arrangement site is known to ban people for being abusive/aggressive -- which sounds like him.
I don't think his getting married involved a cash transaction but it does sound like he may have provided financially in some way to his wife and her children in exchange for the marriage.
Again, what exactly is the evidence that they did NOT meet through a dating site?
Both the victim and the suspect seem to have a strong online presence, both were on dating sites, and neither one of them were in the same social circle.
It would have been much easier to fool someone online than in person.
He would not necessarily have had to be abusive on line, in fact I would think it more likely that he would not be, if his goal was to be charming or predatory in some way.
I do think he was pretty skilled in being manipulative, however. I'm not sure he was as good at it in person, though. His wife noticed his true colors within months. Imo