Link to Jason's testimony.
10/23/19 WI v. McCandless: Defendant's Ex-Boyfriend Testifies About Sex, Abortion and Assault - Court TV
I found this incredibly interesting.
Details from Jason's testimony -
Racy's is where everything connects. Alex was the nighttime barista, Jason and John were 'very close' friends and hung out there and EM was a regular. EM was 'away from her family' and met Jason at Racy's and became 'inducted into it' as he put it, with 'it' being the close-knit family of Racy's (which sounds essentially like any uni group of young philosophers) EM and Jason dated for about a year between 2017 and 2018. He didn't know the age gap was that large 'when i started...' (what?) - he later described her home life as tough. EM moved in with Jason and his roommate about a month after they met/began dating in summer of 2017. For a time, the roommate's gf also lived with them. EM essentially sponged off them the entire time and never 'kicked in' to help costs despite having a job but bought them gifts. She would communicate via FB and instagram.
Here are the instagram links:
Ezra McCandless (@dirt_fiend) • Instagram photos and videos
A strange look is exchanged between them when he says 'she was very into photogtaphy.' This is one of the only times they lock eyes. Shortly afterwards a collection of photos of them is introduced (we don't get to see them) and he blushes and grins when looking at them.
Eventually, EM gets pregnant and Jason was assuming by him (but now doesn't know if it was his or not - it was aborted and she never asked him what he wanted to do and when they got to the abortion clinic in Minnesota she told him to go away.) After the abortion, things changed in their relationship and there was minimal intimacy. Jason was sleeping on the couch.
Sometime afterwards, he leaves to go on a week long trip to CA with a male friend he had become 'exceptionally close' with during the same time period he knew EM. This friend attended Dungeons&Dragons meets on Mondays with Jason.
At one point during their relationship, Jason observed John (JH) through a window putting a choke hold on EM in their apartment. Jason described it as nothing unusual as JH has a military background and was probably just trying to show her something. JH's reaction to Jason coming home was odd though, as he left immediately.
In Feb 2018 Jason left on military training for a few weeks during which EM messaged him to say she had to move out. She was gone when he returned, and his roommates weren't ok with her coming back. This tells me something happened while Jason was gone which I expect to learn more about during roommate testimony.
Next they cover texts Jason saw on EMs phone between her and JH. He would twist his mouth like he tasted something bad while speaking of JH and especially reading some of the texts. We don't know what some of those are because the audio was cut while he read those lines. Here is what they showed in the video:
Jason screenshotted these texts for leverage as he had been suspecting an affair.*
After Jason had confronted EM about these texts, they were on a drive and she claimed JH assaulted her while he was gone. Earlier they established that John returned on the 14th, so looking at these messages there is an obvious discrepancy. Jason put together a timeline to figure out when he thinks these occurred and called JH to confront him. JH denied it at first, then changed his story as Jason presented the evidence. Feb 4, Jason believes or was told by EM that JH, EM and JH's roommate were drinking and essentially got EM plastered, and she was taken advantage of while drunk. (So note how EM says she was blacked out, yet calls it an 'assault'). The next morning, JH drove EM back to Jason's apartment, came in to use the bathroom and reportedly assaulted her again.
The pros bring up a painting of EMs that had been hanging over the bed - Jason later gave it back to her and she gave it away the day she killed Alex. I believe the point is to establish that this was a sentimental item (or should have been) so giving it away that day rightfully troubled Jason.
Finally, testimony ends with pros establishing that Jason knew EM was sleeping with or having a relationship with Alex. He had figured it out through his own observations and things mutual friends were alluding to.
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*Jason used the word 'levity' but I believe he misspoke so this is my interpretation.
I liked Jason. I thought he was (maybe too) honest and a lot nervous. I am sorry for him that he got involved with a woman like Ezra, but am not surprised considering what can be learned about him through his testimony - intf type, care-taking, 'held back' from life because of military (which is why I think a 20 year old was in league for him, however intelligent she is). I do not get a controlling vibe from him at all, only potentially enabling. In fact, it was EM keeping him from DnD or not wanting to interact with his friend group (typical borderline behavior) to the point of threatening self harm to keep him home. He mentioned multiple times that he has 'repressed a lot of this stuff' which I find interesting.
The rambling testimony was brilliant actually, and I see why the judge allowed it. It gave lots of background and detail but importantly demonstrated his ability to recall certain things in detail but not others (like that their catchphrase was 'you are loved and you are valued') and established all the dependencies she had on him (which can be motive).
I'll summarize the defense cross next and then on to the roommate testimony.