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During death penalty trials, I find myself revisiting my thoughts from when I first joined here, and followed many years before.
For most of my life I have been a death penalty advocate and believer.
Yet after following many trials, and getting to know the families and how they felt and the understanding of the hardship and excruciating pain of each and every year as far as coming up for review, I have changed my mind. Notwithstanding the cost of housing and doing all the state funded appeals that will be required.
I now go back to basics as far as my beliefs. The the reason for housing the offenders is to keep them away from society. To protect Society.
Therefore I lean more to life without parole versus the death penalty. It is easier on the families, easier on the state, easier on the community.
The one thing that I do wish would change, is if they had more restrictions when they had life without parole. But that is something that needs to catch up with the times. M o o
Yet bottom line, one of the most significant things I will support is the wishes of the family of the deceased.
This isn't me taking a stand one way or the other. I just want to be part of this think-tank discussion. I can tell you've thought about this a lot. Just want to say I respect the fact that you changed your mind after looking at it from the families' standpoint, and also realizing the financial costs and hardships it puts on the state and community.
The truth is these criminals have gone far and beyond in their crimes to allow them to walk this earth. Another sorry truth is that they can use the system to continue to torture the victims' families and plague society. The DP doesn't make them remorseful. The DP doesn't give those daughters back their mother, or make losing the other parent better.
Plus, the DP seems like a dice roll from US State to State. It doesn't seem fair or consistent. Death Row is a different experience for some states, it seems. The DP inmates aren't put to death for decades, so it's hardly a deterrent. The appeals process is almost downright silly with the man that killed his entire family thinking he can appeal it anyways.
Plus, I do think people just want what you stated in the final paragraph. People say they just want the inmate kept in their cell 23 hrs. a day, but that's a separate issue. You said, "The one thing that I do wish would change, is if they had more restrictions when they had life without parole. But that is something that needs to catch up with the times. M o o"
I agree with what you said about restrictions. No shooting basketball hoops or computer dating for death row inmates.