I meant, that when we have to "delete", the empty post is to be seen. So we include perhaps "dbm" or some dots. For me the dots are no problem. An empty post is an empty post, always suspicious or not to the next reader.
Ask me the same thing about my son and I will answer ‘yes’
The clinic nurse would measure him and tell me it’s normal growth spurts and the crazy/healthy son had his first broken arm at 6 when he came a gutsa on his trike.
We didn’t have technology then, they were outdoor kids.
All children are different in weight and height, my child is tall does not look heavy, you lift him up and nearly break your back.
My friend had two sons had two different builds, even one of them still is so skinny and he loves his food. He is healthy the both of them are.
I had mention before to the group KatieM I was a foster child and had seen both sides of the coin, my Grandparents, foster family who loved me and still a part of my life though I was parted from from also the family who foster me who were the family from Hell.
To this day they believed they did none thing wrong I deserved it, yet ten years ago in a Redress the evidence from school ,neighbours , Doctor's report I was very underweight(their answer was I refused to eat because I said I was fat, I ate what they gave me they limited my food as they said I was a greedy fat pig) evidence etc was there in my file.
From this I received compersation and a apology.
You may question okay why were they not charged if my story is to be believed.
The answer is I used their name from the time I was with them, it was not legal, so in the eyes of the law the time I was with them I did not existed.
But the best thing I did was to move on and make something of my life when I left them.
There are good foster family and bad foster family.
About William black eye, it was just one report, kids will have accidents or it can be some thing else.
It would had been checked out since his Bio Mother mention/reported it .
I stay neutral and leave it for the court to question it regarding William.
When you been in that situation, you do see both sides, in regards of the news report about William eye and health by Bio Mum, parents like myself who have special needs children not just in Australia always come under question about our children.
One Mother in a group was reported, it was witnessed she roughly handled her child who was screaming, shoved her on the ground person reported to child school as it happened outside their ground, teacher saw red marks on girl's arm. Would you say that was abuse?
The other side of the story was the girl had Autism and having major meltdown, she ran blindly away as she was been bullied but some teenagers.
The person who threw her to the ground, well that was her Mother she had grabbed her arm who pulled her back as she was nearly hit by two cars on the road they both fell on the ground,she went full meltdown, he was trying to calm her and stopping her from running into a dangerous situation.
Incident was reported,investigated by school, social services and police matter was dropped except by her former partner who has used it ever since in Family Court......this has been going on now for six years
