BingoBongo
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JMO but PF strikes me as someone who began harming animals at a very young age and got by with it. No one did anything to stop him, and it’s difficult to believe that no one knew.
It appears that treatment escalated to his interactions with people. Perhaps KB was the first person he killed but she certainly wasn’t the first person he harmed. And still, there was no punishment for his treatment of others — we know he is capable of threats.
I believe he grew up as the golden boy in his family, and was regarded in that way by at least one person. Someone who made excuses for him his entire life and is still making excuses and lying.
Were they afraid of him? I would have been and would have distanced myself from him as soon as I could get away from that house. It seems pretty obvious that the siblings do not get along and possibly didn’t before this whole estate thing came about. But I believe they knew what he was capable of and ignored it. And really, what could they do about his previous actions?
I admit that I am confused about there attempts to gain custody of the baby. They obviously disliked her mother. The brother said in testimony that he didn’t even know KB or the baby. He was probably the lucky one to get as far away from that atmosphere as possible. But I don’t think they want that baby for love. There are other motives.
I’m sorry, I’m rambling today and upset that no one even tried to get him help, or so it appears, when it became obvious he was a self obsessed narcissist. Although I don’t think people who get pleasure from harming any living creature can really be helped.
MOO
I think this is typical of a lot of families where one, or both, of the parents are serious narcissists. The emotionally normal/smart kids (maybe due to outside influences, or just a different nature/nurture dynamic) walk away at the first chance they get, and only maintain minimal contact w/their family of origin. Those who don't escape often are narcs themselves or flying monkeys being used by the narcs in the family.
My best guess would be (and this is based on very limited knowledge of the F family so take it lightly) - mom was/is the main reason PF is who/what he is, sister contributed by being both a narc herself and PF's monkey. KL is co-dependent who has been used by PF for so long, she's probably become a bit of a narc herself by imprint.