While I agree with your ethics in principles, in real life, I do have more concern about losing doctors and nurses. Experienced nurses are absolutely essential to everyone's health and everyone else is going to die at MUCH higher rates if we lose them. We absolutely cannot put the health of every single individual above the health of our very limited cadre of medical professionals.
As nurses in non-essential positions are furloughed, I'm reading on their message boards that they are really ambivalent about moving to New York or New Jersey to offer help. Think about what that means for them. They have lost their income. They are almost always women with children or families they support. Many are single moms. How can they move to these other states? Why would they do this? They are so torn, their stress and angst is so great, it's very hard to hear about. Many of them are moving or at least strongly contemplating it. If they are in a city where they can get a job at the front lines, most do that first - risking their own life and the lives of their families. They are sleeping in their cars to avoid infecting their families.
So, yes, every life matters, but people who make foolish decisions challenge rational decision making. If 1 doctor can save 1000 lives over a month long period, we sacrifice her or him to help cruise patients (already infected, who made a decision not to social distance?)
Not fond of that model. Nor do I think others critical to saving lives should be sacrificed (policemen are transporting sick people in their cars; policemen are ill and dying; New York's crime rate is rising daily). Should policemen now be expected to walk through abandoned buildings where the homeless congregate (where they are also exposed to resistant TB - another huge problem for police health) in order to transport? Because EMT's are having to deal only with the most needy cases, people who need ambulance transport after self-quarantine. To me people who have done everything right and self-quarantined but still go into severe respiratory distress deserve an ambulance.
It's like everything else. People think that we should have every missing person treated the same way (we'd have to shut down every school and hospital to afford it, and the cost would basically be unlimited). Or that every crime, no manner how minor, should be investigated and reported. Great idea. But in most states, again, that would mean shifting budget away from other crucial social services. We can't raise taxes right now (except on the rich, I suppose).
California is one of the nation's wealthiest states, but a shift of just 1% of the budget away from education means larger class sizes for already overburdened schools. Teachers haven't gotten pay raises in years, most places. Teachers quit at a high rate, because conditions are awful. We buy our own supplies, no longer deductible for income tax purposes. I think we need education, as it is the more educated communities who are faring better - and manufacturing and sending resources to others.
There are tons of essential occupations and while equal compassion toward everyone is a great idea, by the time the peak hits in each city, each state, the beds will already be filled, some beds with people who are not as sick as people coming in.
What then? Compassion alone will not fix it. Triage is real, already, in Italy, Spain, France, UK, New York New Jersey, and elsewhere. I predict that we'll see many more young people die in places that don't grasp the problem early enough. That's because 40-50% of people in hospital beds are under 40 and without that supportive care, their chances of dying go way up - for 20% of them, they would almost certainly die as they need ventilators. They're the ones who are able to come off ventilators.
90 year olds can come off ventilators too - just at much, much lower rates. We're being asked locally to really think hard before requesting our elderly relatives go on ventilators (mine are all gone now, but I did have to face a similar problem with my dad - it was very hard, but fortunately, his advance directive was crystal clear and he had reiterated his wishes multiple times over many many years).
If it's left up to (compassionate) nurses and doctors, once a patient is in a bed, they are going to do absolutely everything possible to save them. Meanwhile people will be dying at home and on cots in tents.