Personally I am really anti-media for anything that’s even a little complicated because I’ve seen innocent people - whistleblowers even - get dragged through the mud. You’re really opening yourself up to serious liability once you start talking.
That said, if I represented a family of a missing person and I found actual evidence that the people were telling the truth and they aren’t involved, then media attention helps. It puts pressure on LE. Squeaky wheel gets the oil. But I will say it might be the situation of picking one representative to represent the family. The spouse may be too upset or awkward where it really wouldn’t help. Really truly innocent people even the best lawyer can’t stop them.
I recently had a case where against my advice the client did a story with the NYT to exonerate himself- it predictably blew up and he looked like a jerk even when all charges against him were dropped. He became a viral meme because sometimes you can be 100% legally right but still a jerk to the public.
Long way of saying if Barry came off like a jerk even if he’s innocent I might try to pick someone else to do the media pleas- a best friend with him standing behind her? A maternal family member?
Marc Klaas set the bar pretty high for how a kidnapped person's innocent family behaves:
Speak up, and keep speaking up. Let LE investigate the family, friends, whatever it takes for LE to find the kidnapped person. Meet with any and all media to keep the story in the news. Speak up, tell the world what your kidnapped person was like, and keep speaking up for them.
So did the Elizabeth Smart family, when she was abducted in the middle of the night from her home. From wikipedia:
In the early hours of June 5, 2002, Mitchell broke into the home of Edward and Lois Smart in the Federal Heights neighborhood of Salt Lake City, where they lived with their six children.[9] He abducted 14-year-old Elizabeth from the bedroom she shared with her nine-year-old sister,
On June 6, 2002, Ed and Lois went on television and pleaded for the kidnapper to return their daughter.
Kidnapping of Elizabeth Smart - Wikipedia
Elizabeth's parents were on camera pleading for the return of their daughter
THE NEXT DAY.
And as AmandaSkis noted in a post quoted below, Kelsey Berreth's mom put herself in the public arena because she hoped it would make a difference to both Kelsey's baby, who was with the perpetrator's family, and Kelsey herself, who is still missing.
SM doesn't have what those cases had: an impassioned spokesperson who wanted just one thing--to find the missing person and bring her home.
Instead, she's got her husband's friends being interviewed and sharing second-third-fourth hand "information," a lukewarm Facebook Find page, a questionable g f m, a huge monetary reward posted (for safe return, not just any return), and one of the most inane videos I've ever seen, the one and only public plea SM's husband has made.
SM is in trouble, and I hate that.
Find Suzanne Morphew
No update since 17th of may. I find that extremely odd.
IMO, the Find SM page and admin were never in sync with BM. We just didn't know it at the time. But it explains a lot if the Find SM people were not in the BM camp.
I’ve been recently getting caught up on this case. I just watched BM video plea and thought the focus on kidnapping was interesting. Reminds me of Barbara Thomas case. I’m trying to keep an open mind though.
How many searches were conducted? Does it seem unlikely that she fell off her bike, hit her head and wandered off?
JMO
I don't believe SM was on a bike ride when she went missing. So, I'll answer your question: It does seem unlikely.
In Kelsey’s case, we weren’t sure what to think at first. Her mom indicated that Kelsey and Patrick had a great, loving relationship. It was only during the trial that we learned Kelsey’s mom put up a good front because 1) she was petrified of losing her granddaughter too; and 2) LE had asked her to not talk about that relationship.
So we were left scratching our heads at stuff that didn’t appear to add up. That’s how I’m feeling with Suzanne.
This.^^^^
Quite a bit doesn't add up for me in SM's case. Too many oddities and coincidences.
Um Nothing happening! I believe Barry is innocent and they are a wonderful family. I think someone grabbed her. That's my theory. If its not popular so be it. It's not always the husband.
Not always, but usually. We'll have to wait and see which statistic column this case will add to.
It was mentioned Barry's mother is out there and then there is the friend who also put up 100K. If they suspected Barry in the least they would never do this. How many people have a friend that puts up 100K!
A bamboozled friend? One who has been manipulated into believing the cover story?
Really? That money is an empty promise. I could say right now I’d give anyone a million dollars if they bring my missing husband to me. Doesn’t mean I will. I know who the anonymous donor is and there could be another reason they did it.
Can you give us a path as to where to look for this info? WS allows posters some leeway when pointing out comments on Facebook and news media sites.
So, do we know who sent the message? This is the first time I've heard about a mountain lion in the area, and a bike crash.
"CrimeOnline has viewed a message that was sent to members of the Morphew’s former church in Indiana, requesting prayers following the news of her disappearance. The message notes that Morphew’s bike was found “crashed,” and mentions that a mountain lion had been seen in the area where the bike was discovered.
“Barry is just beside himself and so are the rest of us because they can’t find her,” the message, sent on May 11, reads in part."
‘They can’t find her’: Message to church group shows desperate plea in early days of search for missing Colorado mom Suzanne Morphew [REPORT]
And the ground-laying, story-making, red herring-planting continues. Even further afield. (Who did send that message, NuttMegg, do you think? Another bamboozled friend or family member?)
"The Fable of the Bike Ride." Great title.