Hi all. My first post on here. I'm from Peterborough and I have a few friends who are acquainted with the family, though I'm not privy to anything that isn't already public. Just that I've heard the mother was a lot more persistent in getting the police to start searching than the papers made out.
Just sharing some thoughts which may not have been discussed so far:
1) ScW is obsessed with SaW (or is it SaL?)
It's plain to see that ScW is obsessed with SaW just going by his gushing Facebook mentions of her in nearly every post. Even in late August, after the disappearance he posted photos of SaL, with her casually replying 'If you're going to post pictures of me at least make sure I don't look sh@t'.
Good post *advertiser censored* Habilis, but respectfully snipped as I only wanted to comment on your first point & give my personal impression.
Call me cynical, but I don’t take ScW’s fb posts/photos as a sign of obsession with SaW, rather an indication that he is trying very hard to ‘win her over’ & keep her ‘on his side’.
Either because
1) their relationship was floundering,
2) he needs her to forgive him for some transgression ( eg unfaithfulness or worse, inappropriate behaviour with BW) in particular the photos he took of SaW trying to look ‘sexy & appealing’ which I believe were taken after Bernadette went missing ( I may be wrong on date)
3) she knows why Bernadette is missing ( &/or is involved) and he is attempting to keep her ‘on side’ so she doesn’t ‘throw him under a bus’ if/when he/they are questioned/arrested.
I don’t find any of their Facebook posts genuine at all.....quite the opposite.....they are trying to portray themselves a big happy family, & loving couple.
I have a personal suspicion of parents with SO many children, a view, perhaps jaundiced by personal experience of such a family in my own locality.
Also by following certain cases on Webseluths.
It appears to me that that their ( only) “claim to fame” in the community is the number of kids they have produced, as if this somehow proves they are ‘wonderful parents’, whereas personally I feel they are irresponsible.
( I hope this doesn’t offend anyone reading here, who has a large family....these are my personal thoughts only. I myself have 4 children & bringing them up was a tricky balancing act to ensure they had all the individual love & attention that children require to flourish......& was hard work!)
Other WS cases that spring to mind....that of the Philpott family in UK. The father Mick Philpott deliberately set fire to their double council house in May 2012 which resulted in the death of 6 of his ( 17!) children.
.....more recently the Turpin parents in California, jailed for life in 2019 for torturing 12 of their 13 children.
( I appreciate I would be wrong to ‘tar’ all parents of large families ‘with the same brush’ and these thoughts are MOO)