WS Members/loved ones who have Coronavirus or testing for Coronavirus (Group Hug)

From your typing fingers to God's ears, all, Mr. Laughing is on that freshly vacuumed couch! Now, to keep him home this time.

And, colleagues from my office showed up at noon with pizza & salad, we ate on the deck. The patio table is not quite 6" across, but close. I have really terrific colleagues!
@Laughing. I'm just catching up on this thread and read what you've been going through. I'm glad to hear that your DH is home with you on your freshly vacuumed couch! ;) Best wishes on a speedy, complete recovery!!
 
My son just called. He’s still waiting in his car ever since I first posted this morning. My county has the most cases in the state. For our small county, we have almost 11,000 cases. Hoping for just our luck for severe colds but I’m worried. My son works for the Choctaw Nation tribal casinos. He is tested once a month so...
Oh no @imstilla.grandma ! I hope the test is negative and you're right that it's a bad cold. The fact that no one is running a temperature is a good sign. I hope it stays that way! You and your family are doing the right thing by self quarantining. Keep us posted.
 
Jumping in here (this thread has definitely picked up in recent weeks :()
One of my adult kids is positive (lives a few states away :() Started with loss of smell and then some slight chest tightness. Now some minor fatigue, nothing significant I guess. No other symptoms currently.
They work in healthcare so could have gotten it at work. Or not. :rolleyes:

take care everyone !!
 
Jumping in here (this thread has definitely picked up in recent weeks :()
One of my adult kids is positive (lives a few states away :() Started with loss of smell and then some slight chest tightness. Now some minor fatigue, nothing significant I guess. No other symptoms currently.
They work in healthcare so could have gotten it at work. Or not. :rolleyes:

take care everyone !!
Thoughts with you - we're seeing too many of our fellow posters with family testing, sick, in quarantine. When my daughters' family had to go into quarantine, we talked and admitted to each other, is just a matter of time in their lives, so hopefully if they were positive would be mild and provide them some immunity and peace of mind. A close friend confided in me a few days back she feels like there's a dark cloud over her, just waiting to hear someone in her family has the virus. I think that thought speaks for most of us.

My sister related to me last night, they have a dinner out planned this Friday - will be 4 different households. A family friend of theirs is taking them out after the recent death of my BIL. The hosting family has a member who just returned from an out of town week long shopping trip.
Then my family in that area will gather for Thanksgiving - combining at least 6-7 different households, which includes my 85 year old mother.
My sister has cataract surgery 4 days after Thanksgiving, her only concern is the COVID test pre surgery. No concerns over going out to a restaurant with another family; no concerns over meeting with about 20 people, all potentially exposed, for Thanksgiving; no concerns for what she may be taking into that surgery center. Only the COVID test which she has heard so much about. She is a nurse - retired.
I can see at least the next 6-7 weeks feeling like a dark cloud is over me, waiting to hear who in my family has tested positive. I go to sleep and wake up praying for my Moma
 
Well, both myself and Mr.Amandab have tested positive. Him on Saturday after starting in with a fever on Friday afternoon, and me on Tuesday once he came back positive.

It's funny; he has a slight fever, and is pretty weary but otherwise ok.

Whereas I am largely asymptomatic, save for a nagging headache. No fever, no breathing issues, nothing.

If I were an antimasker (and were leaving the house for anything), I'd be the *perfect* candidate to spread this to countless others. Frightening.

Edit: forgot how to spell my own member name - lol
 
Well, both myself and Mr.Amandab have tested positive. Him on Saturday after starting in with a fever on Friday afternoon, and me on Tuesday once he came back positive.

It's funny; he has a slight fever, and is pretty weary but otherwise ok.

Whereas I am largely asymptomatic, save for a nagging headache. No fever, no breathing issues, nothing.

If I were an antimasker (and were leaving the house for anything), I'd be the *perfect* candidate to spread this to countless others. Frightening.

Edit: forgot how to spell my own member name - lol
Hoping for a mild case and long immunity response
 
Well, both myself and Mr.Amandab have tested positive. Him on Saturday after starting in with a fever on Friday afternoon, and me on Tuesday once he came back positive.

It's funny; he has a slight fever, and is pretty weary but otherwise ok.

Whereas I am largely asymptomatic, save for a nagging headache. No fever, no breathing issues, nothing.

If I were an antimasker (and were leaving the house for anything), I'd be the *perfect* candidate to spread this to countless others. Frightening.

Edit: forgot how to spell my own member name - lol

Sorry to hear about you and your DH. Please take care of yourselves. IIRC, you live in Oakland County. We're getting hit hard in these parts :(
 
Thoughts with you - we're seeing too many of our fellow posters with family testing, sick, in quarantine. When my daughters' family had to go into quarantine, we talked and admitted to each other, is just a matter of time in their lives, so hopefully if they were positive would be mild and provide them some immunity and peace of mind. A close friend confided in me a few days back she feels like there's a dark cloud over her, just waiting to hear someone in her family has the virus. I think that thought speaks for most of us.

My sister related to me last night, they have a dinner out planned this Friday - will be 4 different households. A family friend of theirs is taking them out after the recent death of my BIL. The hosting family has a member who just returned from an out of town week long shopping trip.
Then my family in that area will gather for Thanksgiving - combining at least 6-7 different households, which includes my 85 year old mother.
My sister has cataract surgery 4 days after Thanksgiving, her only concern is the COVID test pre surgery. No concerns over going out to a restaurant with another family; no concerns over meeting with about 20 people, all potentially exposed, for Thanksgiving; no concerns for what she may be taking into that surgery center. Only the COVID test which she has heard so much about. She is a nurse - retired.
I can see at least the next 6-7 weeks feeling like a dark cloud is over me, waiting to hear who in my family has tested positive. I go to sleep and wake up praying for my Moma

I'm sorry. How frustrating and scary to see the lack of concern about Covid, especially about the risk to your mother.
 
Just found out this morning that a dear friends mom has covid. She is 91 and in a care home in MI. Due to restrictions, he has not seen her in over a month. Now she has Covid. I can only imagine how scared and alone she feels. My heard breaks for my friend.
It truly is heart breaking. I cannot even imagine.
 
Last week my doctor sent me paperwork to have my routine blood work done for my annual exam - metabolic panel and cholesterol. Both have been normal for the last several years since I began taking a statin for the cholesterol. Other than developing a temporary problem with a pinched nerve in my neck (now ok), I'm in good health.

She still insisted I get the blood work done, but not at her facility as they are exclusively testing people for COVID 19.

In the last 48 hours I've been to 3 different outpatient lab/health care centers to have blood drawn. In spite of them telling me they were only testing COVID patients in cars or not at all, I found myself standing in line in 3 different waiting rooms with groups of patients waiting for COVID tests.

In the last outpatient center, I entered as a woman was checking out and another woman got in line behind me. After asking the male nurse if they were testing patients for COVID there, he assured me they weren't. I waited on my circle for 15 minutes before going up to the desk. He told me to have a seat and a nurse would be out to get my blood draw. As I walked away, the woman who had been standing behind me went up to the desk and said she thought she had COVID and wanted a test. I nearly cursed out loud and got out of there ASAP.

I haven't even gone to the hair salon since March, but my own doctor made me visit 3 different waiting rooms where I had to wait with potential COVID patients for 10 to 15 minutes before realizing what was going on and getting the heck out. I'll take that test in a few months, when COVID rates go down and the providers clean up their act on testing.

After these experiences, I'm convinced some of the spread is coming from providers and testing facilities doing a poor job of keeping potentially sick people away from healthy ones in the testing environment. I'm kind of shocked at the shoddy practices I've seen, not sure if providers are short-handed for workers or just rushing the testing out there.
 
Last week my doctor sent me paperwork to have my routine blood work done for my annual exam - metabolic panel and cholesterol. Both have been normal for the last several years since I began taking a statin for the cholesterol. Other than developing a temporary problem with a pinched nerve in my neck (now ok), I'm in good health.

She still insisted I get the blood work done, but not at her facility as they are exclusively testing people for COVID 19.

In the last 48 hours I've been to 3 different outpatient lab/health care centers to have blood drawn. In spite of them telling me they were only testing COVID patients in cars or not at all, I found myself standing in line in 3 different waiting rooms with groups of patients waiting for COVID tests.

In the last outpatient center, I entered as a woman was checking out and another woman got in line behind me. After asking the male nurse if they were testing patients for COVID there, he assured me they weren't. I waited on my circle for 15 minutes before going up to the desk. He told me to have a seat and a nurse would be out to get my blood draw. As I walked away, the woman who had been standing behind me went up to the desk and said she thought she had COVID and wanted a test. I nearly cursed out loud and got out of there ASAP.

I haven't even gone to the hair salon since March, but my own doctor made me visit 3 different waiting rooms where I had to wait with potential COVID patients for 10 to 15 minutes before realizing what was going on and getting the heck out. I'll take that test in a few months, when COVID rates go down and the providers clean up their act on testing.

After these experiences, I'm convinced some of the spread is coming from providers and testing facilities doing a poor job of keeping potentially sick people away from healthy ones in the testing environment. I'm kind of shocked at the shoddy practices I've seen, not sure if providers are short-handed for workers or just rushing the testing out there.

That is terrible! I'm shocked too and agree that Covid could be spread in this situation. I suppose if everyone is wearing masks properly and distancing, and you are not close to someone with Covid for long, that would reduce the risk. What state is this, if you don't mind saying?
 
I hope we will get updates from the folks who have posted on this thread about their health and that of their loved ones who are ill or have tested positive for Covid.

My husband was tested last Thursday at the doctor's office and he tested negative. We entered the building through a designated door and saw no one other than the doctor and a nurse. We never really thought he had Covid, but he had felt poorly all week and had some health issues that were worrying us. A medication change took care of one of the issues.
 
Wanted to chime in, unfortunately. My 3 year old granddaughter has tested positive as of today and my oldest daughter(her mom), is showing signs, mostly loss of smell, awaiting her test results- along with her other 2 children. I’ve never felt more helpless and useless. As a mother we are supposed to protect our children and throw in my grandbabies and I’m a wreck right now. I visited my daughter the day she started feeling sick, at her job and was within 3 feet of her but we both wore masks. I also utilized the bathroom at the store she works at. Should I be self isolating? Also any advice or words of wisdom would be much appreciated at this time. Relieved to have this platform to share and care with one another. Thank you, WS.
 
Wanted to chime in, unfortunately. My 3 year old granddaughter has tested positive as of today and my oldest daughter(her mom), is showing signs, mostly loss of smell, awaiting her test results- along with her other 2 children. I’ve never felt more helpless and useless. As a mother we are supposed to protect our children and throw in my grandbabies and I’m a wreck right now. I visited my daughter the day she started feeling sick, at her job and was within 3 feet of her but we both wore masks. I also utilized the bathroom at the store she works at. Should I be self isolating? Also any advice or words of wisdom would be much appreciated at this time. Relieved to have this platform to share and care with one another. Thank you, WS.

How long were you around her? Masks don't really matter as far as quarantining as a close contact.
 
That is terrible! I'm shocked too and agree that Covid could be spread in this situation. I suppose if everyone is wearing masks properly and distancing, and you are not close to someone with Covid for long, that would reduce the risk. What state is this, if you don't mind saying?

I live in northeast Ohio. New cases in our area have increased over 1000% just in the last 2 weeks. People are just doing whatever to get tested. No one is calling the doctor's office first, making an appointment or getting information. They're just walking into any doctor's office, ER, outpatient clinic, etc.

Bottom line, avoid going to the doctor for minor things. Ask if routine tests can be postponed for a while. They may say they're handling the testing safely, but many are not. Not in our area. It will get worse in coming weeks. They need to go back to setting up remote stations for people to get drive up testing - away from buildings, waiting rooms and offices.

A friend also told me about waiting in line at a local *** chain drug store to pick up a prescription at the drive up window. There was a big line of cars and as she waited she noticed most of the people were getting tested for COVID 19. The patients weren't wearing masks and workers were sliding the testing tools and samples back and forth in the metal tray/box without cleaning it. When my friend pulled up to the window to get her prescription, she insisted they clean the metal tray.

As cases continue to increase, the system for testing and treatment is going to get overburdened really fast. Look for numbers to explode again in 2 weeks.
 
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Wanted to chime in, unfortunately. My 3 year old granddaughter has tested positive as of today and my oldest daughter(her mom), is showing signs, mostly loss of smell, awaiting her test results- along with her other 2 children. I’ve never felt more helpless and useless. As a mother we are supposed to protect our children and throw in my grandbabies and I’m a wreck right now. I visited my daughter the day she started feeling sick, at her job and was within 3 feet of her but we both wore masks. I also utilized the bathroom at the store she works at. Should I be self isolating? Also any advice or words of wisdom would be much appreciated at this time. Relieved to have this platform to share and care with one another. Thank you, WS.

So sorry to hear this. I hope you're ok and your daughter's family gets through this ok, too.
 
Wanted to chime in, unfortunately. My 3 year old granddaughter has tested positive as of today and my oldest daughter(her mom), is showing signs, mostly loss of smell, awaiting her test results- along with her other 2 children. I’ve never felt more helpless and useless. As a mother we are supposed to protect our children and throw in my grandbabies and I’m a wreck right now. I visited my daughter the day she started feeling sick, at her job and was within 3 feet of her but we both wore masks. I also utilized the bathroom at the store she works at. Should I be self isolating? Also any advice or words of wisdom would be much appreciated at this time. Relieved to have this platform to share and care with one another. Thank you, WS.

Hugs, SAMS, and all the best to you, your daughter and your little granddaughter, and the other two children.

I want to preface this post by saying IANAD, and everything is jmo.

Re: level of exposure, this is interesting and I would be curious as to what @mickey2942 , @10ofRods and @dixiegirl1035 would say re: whether or not you should be quarantining, with masks and 3 feet. Some relevant aspects/ questions imo, if I may, was it indoors? How big is the room and what is the ventilation like? Any open windows, etc? What type of mask were you both wearing? Also importantly imo, how long was the contact?

One thing I will say, there is no doubt she was infectious at the time of your meeting, if she is positive, based on you saying she started getting ill/exhibiting symptoms that day.

As to the level of viral load, etc., hard to say but IMO, I would err on the side of caution wrt quarantining, especially if it was indoors with poor ventilation, and exposure was prolonged Jmo.
As for exact guidance on this, I would need to know how long the potential exposure was, ventilation aspects, mask type, etc. to further assess risk based on my opinion, etc. imo jmo IANAD, crosschecking of course with current guidance.

As for use of the shared bathroom, I think that’s a potential risk element as well, jmo, moo, for a few reasons, as they have been named as risky locations in some articles and would be considered a risky location imo especially if/since she may be positive.

To be clear, the term for you would be “quarantining”, not “isolating”, as the latter is used to describe covid positive persons. Quarantining is if you’ve been potentially exposed or identified as a contact.

Hang in there, hopefully all of you will have mild symptoms and/or be asymptomatic. Here for support.
 
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