AbbeyBabbey
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InterviewerThe Behaviour Panel asking Don about Candus.
Interviewer
Is there anything about Candus's story that makes you question the story?
Don
No, not the way it played out and
everything like that. I mean yeah you
always have questions and I'd ask myself and, with the way that it happened and her emotions and her state of mind.
Interviewer
What were the questions that you had?
Don
I mean I, I don't really have any, I mean, a question and I don't really have any questions, I mean.....
They had a lot to say on this part of the interview. I won't go into it all as it's extensive, the link is above and starts at the correct time.
It was definitely a hmmm moment for them (their own words).
They did say he deviated from his baseline and it raised a bunch of red flags for them, 4 in a row.
They also said they didn't want to push him because they knew he could just get up and leave at any point.
If Don, her husband, doesn't believe Candus' story, the question is - Why should I?
Obviously, this is just based on The Behaviour Panel's assessment being accurate.
Is there anything about Candus's story that makes you question the story?
Don
No.....
Then, Don does what Don always does. His thoughts speed ahead of his mouth and he thinks he has to explain/expound. We know that he has been very concerned and protective over Candus. Perhaps his rambling is about not wanting to speak for/about Candus? Marital privilege? Would a normal person disclose their SO's most intimate thoughts/feelings for consumption on a radically cruel Internet when they are at the lowest point in their life? I consider myself fairly normal and I would have to answer a resounding NO to that!!! Some things are just too personal/private/hurtful to talk about and is reserved only for one's most intimate, shared-experience partner that not a single other person could possibly understand. There are so many things that others have pried into. I don't want to know the inner mechanisms of their marriage/life. It just feels so invasive/voyeuristic. Let them have at least some privacy.
My thoughts.