You make some compelling statements. Not sure I buy all of them, but I’d like to hear your “sales pitch.” Forgive me if you’ve been through it all before, but would you mind fleshing your ideas out a little more? I find the advance RN particularly interesting.
UK Guy,
I will attempt to elaborate, but keep in mind I have only the same known facts from which to hypothesize as anyone else, and I am basing my theories on a rather instinctive feeling rather than on concrete knowledge.
I feel, in general, that this case is PDI and that BR was framed as a safe patsy. Perhaps PR thought she could fool JR into believing BDI, but in any case I don't think he believed that. I think she set up BR's knife and long johns in an attempt to pull off this deception, or perhaps also in an effort to nudge the police into the belief that BDI. This would strengthen my theory of premeditation in that it would suggest that PR researched, or otherwise discovered beforehand, that a 9 year old would escape public judgment and punishment. She already knew her son had exhibited bizarre and possibly violent behaviors that were known to their circle of friends (the golf club incident, etc.) This framing effort may have extended to include the baseball bat found outside, the disappearance of BR's bike, etc.
As for the size 12's, I continue to maintain that it is PR who is most likely to have included these on purpose in the scene, for 2 reasons. First, PR was a drama queen, for whom appearances carried far too much significance, and she needed JBR to be found in a pair (any pair) of underwear that reflected the correct day of the week, both for superficial vanity and to stamp the date of death as Christmas Day. Second, this would LOOK like something no mother like PR would ever do, which, along with BR's long johns, would help deflect guilt in the eyes of the police.
Now for the premeditation idea. This one is my gut talking, and hard to express in a convincing way, but I will try to at least offer some contextual support here.
The facts are that many practice notes were proven to exist. The facts are that PR specifically vocalized several after-the-fact observations: that the my twinn doll looked like JBR in a coffin, that the purple with which PR decorated was known to be associated with Easter (death and resurrection), not Christmas (read: REbirth through violent sacrifice, not an initial birth of pure innocence), etc. These two things scream out at me as a projection by PR of things she had observed BEFORE the murder being spun by PR as HINDSIGHT to sound more stagy and dramatic and profound. I mean, why else would she make a huge point of mentioning how she should have seen this coming, unless she in fact did see it coming??
It's my take that PR had this idea in her head for a while, and I'm guessing she was seeing "signs from God" everywhere she looked, which mounted up in her mind, eventually creating for her both the ultimate rationalization for her planned actions (God wants me to do this, I owe him) and a pass, in her mind, on any consciousness of sin or guilt (this is the divine plan, and JBR's true purpose on this earth is to be a sacrifice for the soul of the world). Witness PR's expressed statements after the murder about how God meant big things for JBR (I am paraphrasing, but I think it was along the lines of JBR having a bigger, and less earthly, purpose, by virtue of having become an angel.)
An earlier poster mentioned that the jewelry gifts given to JBR were all part of her adornments in the coffin. The bracelet was engraved with the very date she died, or the date we are strongly led to believe she died. Yes, this could be an unfortunate coincidence, but it seems to me that PR may have "visualized JBR in a coffin" in many more ways than one.
Why would any Christian, fervent and devout, steeped in the traditions of advent and lent, choose the colors surrounding Christ's death as those to celebrate his birth? I cannot believe this was due to oversight or a love of the color purple. The reason, IMOO, was because the Lenten PURPLE represented life AFTER DEATH, and this was an imperative and urgent salve that PR desperately needed surrounding her when planning to send her child to heaven. In addition, the resurrection was only made possible through a violent murder, a willing self-sacrifice, which was also KNOWN to Christ beforehand. Purple reminded PR, IMO, that she was about to perform a grand sacrifice at the urging of the God who had saved her, personally, from certain death, a sacrifice that she convinced herself would somehow have great benefit for people everywhere. The sacrifice was important because it represented a grandiose act of selflessness, and IMO PR chose purple for all of the above reasons, consciously or unconsciously.
The RN...I just went and re-read the entire note AS IF it had been written in advance. I encourage you to do the same. It seems to me that PR could have been penning and practicing this note as part of a "wait and see" campaign against JR, who quite clearly is the object of vitriol in the rn. Could she have planned to stage a fake, but realistic, kidnapping drama as a way to punish JR for SA, for a wayward eye to other women, or as a wake up call that his living child needed his attention and that he was too hung up on Beth? I'm not guessing these scenarios are likely, but they are possible. PR may have planned to have someone "kidnap" JBR (secret visit from Santa?) and then leave the rn to get what she wanted from JR, whatever that was. Then, seeing signs of sacrifice everywhere, she decided on a plan B in which she could still use the rn as a prop and a decoy?
I tend to think PDI, and the RN was part of her initial, premeditated, planning. But it could be anything else. I firmly believe PR was besieged by many mental issues or illnesses, and I believe most of them stemmed from her own childhood. The drama, the "posing" as a person long past rising above her humble WV roots, the pathological attachment to appearances and surfaces, all while still falling short of the esteem of those she needed to belong to, screams "impostor syndrome" to me. It is MOO that PR knew, deep down, that she could not pretend or will herself into high society legitimately, and that she wasn't really fooling anyone. This would include the miss jean brodie performances, the beauty pageants, the disdain of her peers and the looming "intervention," the wandering eye of her husband, the possible SA that she either perpetrated or enabled but in any case had to constantly hide, the pressures from her own mother, the fact that JR seemed to prefer his dead daughter with another woman over his living daughter with her, the fact that she gave show tours of her homes but couldn't keep feces off the walls and out of the toilets....the list goes on forever. IMO PR was a shell of a person, trying to function after her real self had long ago been lost. The cancer, to her, may have been the last straw, as it temporarily stole her looks and her public stage, and the remission...imagine how godsent that must have seemed to PR...a sign that she was still of use to someone...that she still had a purpose, and a secret power. It is not too farfetched, IMO, under all these mind tugs from different directions, that PR might have seized on that sense of agency and meaning, and committed a crime in the name of God's divine mercy and God's greater plan, knowing that BR could be both blamed and forgiven for it without consequence. All MOO, of course, but this is where I'm coming from.
On a much simpler note, it also occurs to me that the "certain blonde " PR referred to in a conversation may have been either a woman JR seemed to fancy, or JBR, or both. The case may be all about jealousy of her daughter, with or without a connection to JR involved. The RN sure does imply serious bitterness toward JR though...could this also fit my above theory that PR (as a self-imagined unsuccessful impostor) resented JR, his business, his money/bonus, and his success because, like everything else around her, were actually the real deal, and only mirrored her own perceived failures back at her?
I know this was long, and I apologize. Please remember I'm only going by gut feelings based on behavioral and historical patterns I perceive.
And ALL OF THE ABOVE IS MOO, of course.