I'm trying to understand this folly. I really am. I am 3 years older than VW. Also single (but with one adult child), retired from active duty military with a check coming in every month, recently retired from federal civil service, also with a check coming in every month. Free healthcare for life. All without doing a single darn thing every day. I simply cannot imagine a scenario where I would walk away from all that for a felon. A common, violent criminal. I literally cannot envisage such a scenario at my age. I'm not excusing VW, but there has to be something seriously wrong with her. jmo