Or maybe they never saw the post in the paper. Maybe when searching for a kid who had runaway multiple times it didn't occur too them to check the morgue. Maybe they are reading these comments now and it is like a gut punch. Just thought I would add to the "discussion"Maybe they felt ashamed. Might've had religious prejudices toward that lifestyle. Maybe they were homophobic and didn't want to be known as the parents of the "dead Gay victim"
Maybe they had read about it in the paper that witnesses said they saw him at a gay bar. If the family was so in denial they might have issues with it, especially if he never CAME OUT to them..