I just now saw this and can't stop crying. Oh my gosh. Well, for a few weeks now, my 15 y/o son has been involved in a few incidents at school. About a month ago, one of his "friends" said something like "Your mom has the nicest rack I've ever seen" - my son punched him in the face & the boy apologized...no teachers were told. About a week later, another kid said something out of line & my boy threatened him - teacher told and nothing happened. Then last week, this same friggin' kid said something about me again and my son hit him in the face with a book - my boy got kicked out of class b/c he's the one that took it to a physical level and the other boy continued to sit in class until I told our VP exactly how I felt & proceeded to threaten them with a lawyer. The other boy was brought down to the office, apologized, and they both got an afterschool detention. They both got the same flippin' detention - unreal! My boy didn't start it! Plus, I believe I'm owed an apology! I don't give a $h!t if it's a 15 y/o or a 50 y/o saying such disparaging remarks, it's illegal and should not be tolerated! The VP completely disagrees with me. While sometimes it might seem nice to be the "cool" mom, this is blatant sexual harassment - but the school disagrees with me - that's a fact! They told me this is how 15 y/o boys are...keep in mind kids are put on the Sex Offender Registry for texting now...but this isn't sexual harassment & it's considered normal? OMG - puhlease!
I think the school should get sued - plain and simple. No, it's not about money...but something needs to be done to hold these stupid a$$ school officials more responsible. IMO, teachers cater to certain kids, and cover for them, therefore adding to the bullying effect. It's sick!
This poor, dear, wonderful little Carl - I sure hope his family finds peace someday. God be with them. I'm so very very sad now. All I can think about is what my very own son has been going through in school this year. He always got good grades, has never done drugs or hung out with "bad" kids, been athletic - now it seems like he's giving up and becoming computer & Xbox Live addicted. OMGosh, OMGosh, OMGosh...so sad...