went to look at her site blog4mom and saw it's basically a poorly written marketing scheme. She wasn't "talking" to friends-she was hawking products, giveaways, etc. Apparently, this is big, praising products to get freebies, offering giveaways to attract traffic to your site etc.
I didn't see any evidence of real social interaction, more trying to get free stuff and attend conferences. I found this description which kind of sums it up:
"She was a total marketer...and very entrenched in the Twitter/Social Media club...between June and December, she attended social/networking meetups in Disney, for General Motors, for Type A Moms, and Blogher - some lasting up to 5 days - they were all traveling trips and didn't include her family.
She often had "give aways" of $500.00 Walmart cards in order to attract traffic to her site, but if you read her Twitter line, she never mentioned the winner.
She often praised merchandise looking for freebies - which she often got: Eye fi, Crocs, HP, Kuru Footwear and assorted others.
Mrs. Ross even had links with "how to make money using Twitter."
Yes Sir - she did everything one is supposed to do to get noticed in Twitter Land, communicate often and engage people in conversations - do "giveaways" to attract more people, mention companies that you like often enough, and they will send you freebies, she had one Tweet that said, "I've tweeted so much, my API has failed!"
This is not to say I blame her. But to me it's not a question of twitterering. To me, the twitter stuff was a job and like any other working mother you need to have someone take care of your children while you work. I have twins so I know I couldn't work and watch them while they were young. I worked at home two days a week and always had a sitter with me at the house to make sure they were always watched. To me, she was working and only she knows if she was able to work and watch her young child at the same time.
Well yes, of course - when you ask others to pray for you (as we do here often), you are certainly seeking their attention!
I'm sure this woman feels as close and connected to her friends on Twitter as I do to mine here or on Facebook.