I'm thinking that the women were in the room with PR who was distraught. JR was most likely with the men. LA probably had a choice as to whether she stayed with PR or went to stay with the men. I'm thinking she chose PR. Does this make JR 'missing'. I think not. Let's hear from whoever has statements from the other people present that none of them saw JR during that 80 minute period. Then I'll agree that we was 'missing'.
It has been stated several times, that John was 'off by himself'. He wasn't with Patsy, or 'the men'. People commented that they thought it was strange that he isolated himself. This is not said to start an argument, but as previously stated by people present.
As for your response to DeeDee, both Patsy and John stated they never read the autopsy report. The head bash was 'heard round the world' as far as newspapers and tabloids are concerned, some of which the Ramseys saw fit to sue over. They must have read at least some of them. He also saw JonBenet with the ligature around her neck and arms when he carried her upstairs. Instead of saying that I hope my child didn't suffer, I would have been cursing and damning the person/people who did the crime FOR making MY child SUFFER!!! Their statements can usually be interpreted to fit the evidence. Inside knowledge.