thats a good thought......NBC could possibly have messed up the instructions. especially if you believe the dementia stories (I don't feel overly confident about them...every single story every told, has portrayed him as shrewd, sharp, angry and determined)
But, on the flipside, I realise these stories are likely two years old or more, and dementia or alzheimers doesn't need that long to affect someone)Good thinking, but as always, we are just throwing around a million ideas with no one to bump us where we need to go!!!!!
Ill give you a little bump in the Dementia direction... Here goes...
Approx 2 years prior to my Mother being diagnosed with Dementia , her personality changed and she became an angry person who at times, made inappropriate comments and decisions. Her decision making skills, were affected early on. I noticed quite early on what was happening and worked with her to solve and guide her through many simple issues. Nothing too hard and nothing that anyone else would notice really.
She started to rely on me and trusted me completely. I was the only one she trusted and favoured. ( thank God, I have a personality that is very accommodating, non judgemental, extremely patient and very very honest, so of course this was a good thing.) well it's true ok. :fence: anyway,
I can imagine though, if I was a greedy bad son (GBC) or daughter, I could have taken full advantage of this, and used my early onset dementia affected parent in anyway I wanted too. :what: Yes, it's quite sick thought, but , i have heard, it does happen. :maddening: so...
IF and only if,( I don't know?) just MAYBE the father , NBC, was going through the early stages of dementia (undiagnosed) he wouldn't see or understand the mess GBC was creating , with the business and his Marriage. During the 12 months prior to Allisons murder?
GBC asked his Father for the equity in his Fathers home. NBC gave it to him?
GBC made bad business decisions. NBC supported him?
It appears that NBC did everything his son asked him to do, without question.
It appears that that is still the situation?
NBC may have been fed GBCs lies about his marriage and needing to get rid of Allison. I can imagine he could very well believe everything GBC told him , without question , even polarizing what he was being told.
There is a strange window in time, i have seen with dementia, where the sick person appears to be of sound mind, when in fact they are extremely vunerable to being coached and manipulated and could be directed to do almost anything for you without the demented person even realizing what the consequences truly are. Medication could also add to this disassociation from what real.
If the Father, NBC, trusted and favoured GBC, in this strange window, It would explain why the father, NBC, has gone along, without question, with all of GBCs stupid business decisions and why he may have without question, followed GBCs lead that night. :what:
I think it is very possible that the father fits this profile.
I think he would have got GBCs instructions wrong, from the facetime call, and sat at the wrong roundabout that evening waiting for GBC.
This could be why the police have not laid charges.
Maybe it's better to keep him to answer questions at the trial ?
Anyway, I'm just answering Minnie s post , nothing more.
I don't know if NBC has dementia.
Im just putting it out there that anythings possible concerning NBCs sighting at the BUS STOP the night poor Allison was murdered.
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