I am a fence sitter; as fortunately I am an observer in this unfortunate family's
nightmare.
Care to share any thoughts as to why you're on the fence?
I am a fence sitter; as fortunately I am an observer in this unfortunate family's
nightmare.
I would love to know what plans dad had for the week to keep Dylan entertained.
He could have stayed home if it was to hang out with friends.
M: Well, it's been a tough time for all of us. I know it's been difficult on me and I can only imagine how it's been for his mom and his brother and his family over in the Colorado Springs area.
R: I want to get this subject out of the way first. There's a lot of suspicion out there, even when Elaine went on ABC news...
M: Right.
R: She was... can you address that?
M: Um, well I can only imagine being the mother and the frustration of hearing about your son going missing.
Timeline of events in Dylan Redwine case
http://www.durangoherald.com/articl...aily/Timeline-of-events-in-Dylan-Redwine-case
Hmmmm, it sounded like "weren't" to me and if I had to bet on it I'd bet on Peach's accuracy, and she did it at 3:30 am on top of that! :yesss:
ETA: clarification post ahead!
I know that its been said that the divorce and split has been years ago and that any negativity from that should have long since died down..but what needs to be remembered is that there is a significant change that has recently occurred with the issue of custody..and while I know some people are of the opinion that the custody issue goes no further than just being a technical necessity thru the courts due to the mother moving with their one minor child 5 hours away.. Imo I have had a bit of a different opinion of this matter and Now that we have MSM validating that there is a domestic violence issue involved as well.. Well I'm just going to put out there in theory what I personally believe is at the heart of this entire matter and sadly why I believe Dylan is no longer here.. Its jmo, tho..
The mother went before the court a couple of months back seeking to have their joint and shared custody of their one minor son, changed to the mother having sole custody..primary custody.. IMO the way this court decision came about set off a rage within this father.. The father had to go back to court after the mom's having the change of custody JUST TO HAVE A VISITATION SCHEDULE SET UP..this battle is what set in motion where we are today..whether for valid reasons or not IMO mom's having changed the custody to her having full custody of Dylan with no visitation schedule for the father ..this ENRAGED this father.. I believe that what is at the heart of this matter is an angry vengence between two ex spouses.. I believe that when the father went back to court to readjust the newly court ordered full custody to mom..to as of Sept his being awarded a visitation schedule BEGINNING WITH THE FIRST VISIT TO HAVE BEGUN ON NOV 18TH FOR A WEEK VISIT ..that was done out of pure anger(again whether or not there was a valid reason for that anger IMO IS IRRELEVANT)..IMO the fact is this IMO set off vengeful anger of this man towards his ex-wife..
IMO Dylan's being gone is an absolute direct result of that bitter, vengeful anger that this ex-husband has for his ex-wife.. I will not go any further or make accusations of what possibly he did or didn't do to Dylan.. But I will add that per the admin of the FindDylan Facebook its a known fact that this father prior to the move/court ordered change of custody from joint to full custody of Dylan to his mother, prior to that when they did live in the same town, and did share custody that the father did not keep up a relationship with Dylan.. IMO this only further lending credence to the possibility that the entire motive for the dad going in and having this visitation court ordered was out of enraged anger toward the mother/ex-wife..rather than for a dedicated relationship of a father to his son..jmo, tho..
IMO the war that's been waged and raged between this ex-husband and ex-wife is the sole reason for why Dylan is no longer here.. Jmo. And I wish I was wrong and maybe I am wrong only time will tell but IMO this is what IMO is at the very heart of the matter and exactly when this whole nightmare was originally set in motion months ago..not days or weeks ago..months ago..
All jmo and nada damn thing more...
Long ways? I guess it depends on where you live. I live outside of Santa Fe, NM and it takes me well over an hour to get to the Sunport Airport in ABQ, NM.
Vallecito, CO to Durango-La Plata County Airport - Google Maps
http://durangoherald.com/article/20...121139996/Investigators-end-search-of-house--
Investigators end search of house
Authorities say they will not release any information about the interview or what was, or was not, taken from the residence.
The task force concluded its door-to-door canvassing that began Tuesday and has shifted its focus to following up on leads and evidence.
“Until we put together any leads or information that leads us in a certain direction, most work is going to take place internally,” Shupe said.
So my uneducated read on him was right - he looked liked he could have been selling me a chain saw or something.
With great thanks to Peachy:
Reporter: OK. So, thank you so much for speaking with me on camera, Mark.
Mark: You're welcome.
R: What's it been like?
M: Well, it's been a tough time for all of us. I know it's been difficult on me and I can only imagine how it's been for his mom and his brother and his family over in the Colorado Springs area. And we're doing everything we can to try and find Dylan and keep the focus on finding Dylan. And you know, I've been working with the investigators and to make sure all the bases are being covered on that end. And that's pretty much where I'm at with that. I mean I'm doing everything I know how to do.
R: I want to get this subject out of the way first. There's a lot of suspicion out there, even when Elaine went on ABC news...
M: Right.
R: She was... can you address that?
M: Um, well I can only imagine being the mother and the frustration of hearing about your son going missing. And you know, I can only think that has to do with lashing out and trying to find who is accountable for this in this situation. I've been working closely with the investigators to do what needed to be done because you know, he was last seen at my house. And there's rumors going around that he's been spotted by people. You know, our concern is that something has happened to the point now where we just want to keep in the public's eye, you know Dylan's face, keep the focus on Dylan. And you know, don't worry about me and everything's going to be alright on my end. But I know this is a troubling time for Elaine and my son Cory, I spoke with him last night and I'm surprised we were able to hook up today because one of the things we're trying to do is unite together. And I have my oldest son from the Phoenix area here and of course my brother is here. And we're trying to unite as a family and stay focused on what's important here. And you know everybody wants to focus on me but the focus isn't me right now. The focus is finding Dylan and that's where I'm at.
R: Why do you think people want to focus on you?
M: Well, because I think that's a natural part of the process and because you know, he was last seen with me and he was with me the night before. And you know, I saw him in the morning before I left to go run my errands. You know, that's the logical place to start. And so, it doesn't at all surprise me, you know that they searched my home yesterday because quite frankly, I was expecting that to happen a week ago. So, you know my opinion is that we're all a week late and in where were at with this. So my focus is what do we need to be doing now to keep searching for Dylan and bring him home.
R: Do you have anything directly to say to Dylan?
M: Dylan, my prayers are with you and I love you very much. He was the light of my life and he meant everything to me. And I just want him home just like everybody else does. And that's why we've got to keep searching for him. Because somebody knows something. We've got to find him and we need to know he's okay.
(Part 2 coming up)
He said it was not something he could address at this time, or something like that.
There are smart folks here whose hinky meters are way up, and also there are smart folks here who, at least after this interview, seem to trust MR's statements. So very interesting.
With that being said, there is no other option than for all those who believe MR to be telling the truth to come up with / focus on alternate theories / suspects. If MR didn't do this, then who did? For those of you who truly believe in MR, go back to the first threads and look at what I said about other abductions in the area, etc. I, personally, after playing devils advocate, am now on the hinky meter side, but that could change after watching the interview tomorrow.
All I gotta say is if MR didnt do this, then we have lost a lot of time, unfortunately. Because we are some damn good trackers. I know I was just a few steps behind Sigg.
Within the first 1:30 minutes of this media interview, MR seemed intent on making it known that he has been "working with investigators".
Why is it so important to him that the public knows that he has been "working with investigators"?
The only people that need to know he's been cooperating with investigators are the investigators themselves, IMO.
I don't know if this video has been posted yet:
http://www.koat.com/news/new-mexico...boy/-/9153728/17602522/-/be4fv7z/-/index.html
The reporter says that when investigators went to serve the search warrant at MR's home, he answered the door but left soon afterwards.
I had trouble making the distinction between WERE and WEREN'T, too, when I listened to the interview..... I still don't know...Peachy, THANK YOU, Amazing work. :loveyou:
I do think there MIGHT be one small correction though. Anyone feel free to correct this if I am mistaken but I think this sentence:
"But I know this is a troubling time for Elaine and my son Cory, I spoke with him last night and I'm surprised we were able to hook up today because one of the things we're trying to do is unite together."
Should be ' we WEREN'T able to hook up today...'
That is how it sounded to me and I just listened again. Anyone else think so ?
I don't know if this video has been posted yet:
http://www.koat.com/news/new-mexico...boy/-/9153728/17602522/-/be4fv7z/-/index.html
The reporter says that when investigators went to serve the search warrant at MR's home, he answered the door but left soon afterwards.