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mindys said:Tabitha is still a child. She could NOT have known the full implication of "sexy girl" or what it would mean to older men to have a title like that associated with her. Let us also remember she is growing up in a world of Britney Spears, etc. The "ghetto girl" title could also have something to do with this hip-hop music scene a lot of the young teenagers are into.
She should not be held responsible in any way for what has happened to her.
thank you for supporting the fact that tabitha had nothing to do with her disappearence. due to someone elses circumstances is the reason she is gone. tabitha from what I have learned from her parents was a wonderful child, never was a problem maker, loved to watch scarey movies, but she certainly didn't care much for the rapper music much. the tuders didn't have a computer until sometime early last year. the ghetto girl thing was something someone just got started about her, tabitha wasn't a street smart child by any means and stayed close to her home, she feared the neighborhood she lived in. if any one person in my opinion had something to do with her disappearence I would have to say that the boyfriend of her older sister certainly should be looked into very closely. the tudors just want some closure to this heartache not critisizim. last year someone wrote an email to one of the news station and went through the whole skit about where her body was and the location it was placed and all that, I don't think much ever became of it, but the police did do a small search of the area described and came up empty handed, either this person knew something or was pulling a prank.bkdianne said:Very good post! I was thinking exactly the same thing when I read that other post about Tabitha calling herself "ghetto girl" That is a 12-13-14year old thing to do, and say, it says nothing about "her" She probably listened to "rap" music, no biggy, most kids do at that age. But "thank you" for saying she had nothing to do with her disappearance, because she didn't!
there use to be one. www.tabithatuders.com but I think it is down now, its a lot to look thru, but in the first few months of her missing the website was up and it was posted on this forum, at one time there was so much insult and other nasty messages that people left that the tuders took it off, but it may just be temporary.michelle said:i have been lurking around this thread a bit but never posted, is there a website for tabitha?
first of all, the red car that was seen at the kmart store is a very similar match as to the one the witness saw that morning, the kmart store is closed that early in the morning, but the workers that have the job of restocking shelves are there all night, the boyfriend worked there. the day she went missing the boyfriend had called her house at 630am and talked to jamie, that call was to jamies cell phone. he never supported that family in her disappearence, and he wasn't no where around for at least 24 to 30 hrs after the fact. he used cars from a couple of sources but didn't have alot of folks loaning him a car. he would use his sisters car, which we haven't been able to determine the make and type, his friends car which is not the one, and maybe his aunts car, it would be easy for him to get access to a car at the store he worked at, he could have told a co worker he needed it for what ever reason. he lived with the tuders for a period of six months, and lots of those times he and jamie slept in tabithas bed, and then a day and a half after she went missing he and jamie were sleeping in her bed, I just think that is very odd, because at the time she went missing he had not been living there for at least two or three months since he had moved out in and about dec of 2002. as far as I know there is very little volunteer efforts being made to locate this child or her remains. myself and a few others are always looking and listening as to what is being said and who is saying it. the boyfriend has no car of his own, and the car which I have observed at the store has been seen many times in the same vacinity as she disappeared from, I have recorded the tag numbers of that car and the tag numbers of several other cars that match that vehicle, a relative of a police detective that is handeling the case was given one of those numbers, but what ever became of it is a mystery, I have other numbers but until the police show a interest in looking into them I probably won't provide them, after all that is what they should be doing if they want to crack this case. myself and a few volunteers have looked around the property just outside the county line and haven't found anything. but the adjoining property is heavly wooded and is just a few steps out the back door of the house that use to be his grand dads house. his grand dad went missing some years back, he had dementia and the boyfriend was solely responsible for his care, apparently he walked off one day and was gone for days before being located within a few miles of his home frozen to death, the boyfriend was intially considered a suspect in his death. but later was considered that he had no involvement, I could go on for a very long time of the things I have learned of this case, but instead will leave it to the many post I have made as well as those that others have made.gingersnap said:My husband and I used to live in KY and I remember the day it came on the news about Tabitha coming up missing. So heartbreaking. I believe the new website for Tabitha is www.tabithatuders.net . I believe this is posted a few pages back. As I sat here tonight and read through the 14 pages of this thread I just cried. I cannot imagine walking in Tabitha's parents shoes. I had not seen a picture of Tabitha since the news when she first disappeared. I then clicked on the escort link to check out the Victoria everyone was talking about. My jaw hit the floor. Of course then I went to Tabithas website and re-looked at her pictures and wasn't convinced that was her. A very striking resemblance though. I don't remember exactly which post I read it in but there was a link to the TBI, so I am assuming that they are involved with this case. It was mentioned that local law enforcement could not legally go and search the sister's boyfriends grandfathers place as it was in another county. Couldn't or shouldn't the TBI have done this? I am still confused as to the post I read about where the sister and her boyfriend stayed in Tabitha's room. Is this after she went missing? If it is after the fact, why would the mother even allow that? That seems very strange to me. Reading through all these posts and past news articles has left me with the feeling that Jamie, the sister, knows more than she is letting on. I don't think she knows any specific facts, however I believe she knows something that for whatever reason she cannot or will not share. Also with the boyfriend. After reading that Tabitha got into a red car with a man that fits the description of the boyfriend and then another poster saying that they have been by the K-Mart where the boyfriend works and there is a red car there, mind you this is the early morning hours before the store is open for business. He has an array of different vehicles he can borrow. Does the person who seen the car at the K-Mart know if it is in fact the boyfriends car? Is there a way to sit and watch to find out? Even though this case has been turned over to the cold cases, are there still active volunteers on this case? All I know is that I never forgot this little girls name in almost three years. So I find it odd that there aren't or isn't more around that area who don't think of her now and then also, mainly the media. Are there still search teams? At all? If someone with the address of the Tuders Family would get ahold of me with an address I would like to send a card. Thank you.
Roxy
