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  1. Opinionsgalore

    Who is GBC? An armchair psych discussion

    I can remember as a child having a very clear sense of like/don't like when it came to people, my mother thought this was a bad thing and told me I was being judgmental and unfair - but children KNOW, they have very keen senses, sadly I listened to my mother and grew up giving people chances...
  2. Opinionsgalore

    Who is GBC? An armchair psych discussion

    The way I explained it to my sons was to trust their gut instinct, that if they see red flags don't ignore them, if they feel uncomfortable around someone then feel free to walk away - you owe them nothing. One of the key points is this - do they trust this person ? would you snoop around on...
  3. Opinionsgalore

    The aftermath of the verdict *MERGED*

    No.no.no - don't be saying that :sick:
  4. Opinionsgalore

    The aftermath of the verdict *MERGED*

    YES !!!!! Of course, first it was the caterpillar now it's the judge.
  5. Opinionsgalore

    The aftermath of the verdict *MERGED*

    That sort of infamy would be fine if she worked in a brothel.....
  6. Opinionsgalore

    The aftermath of the verdict *MERGED*

    After Sunday night she's going to be about as attractive as a used condom on the beach (to employers), I dunno, maybe I'm over thinking this, but is Sunday a publicity stunt leading up to a book ? Dunno, dunno, dunno - makes no sense.
  7. Opinionsgalore

    The aftermath of the verdict *MERGED*

    It doesn't make sense at all *scratches head*. WHY, why go to all that trouble, then jump out so that everyone can see her again, I'm wondering if she's got a tell-all book in the works...... hmmm ?
  8. Opinionsgalore

    The aftermath of the verdict *MERGED*

    As soon as I heard that taxpayers won't be funding the appeal, I thought:- "I wonder if TM has been receiving phone calls/emails trying to convince her that a) G REALLY does love her and although it may have come across that he was throwing her under the bus during the trial, that wasn't the...
  9. Opinionsgalore

    The aftermath of the verdict *MERGED*

    woohoo - glad to hear the tax payers won't have to foot the bill for that debacle.
  10. Opinionsgalore

    Who is GBC? An armchair psych discussion

    But those closest to Allison say it was Gerard who kept her from her friends, denigrating her and leaving a once vivacious woman with self-confidence issues. They said it was difficult to know what to say when Allison told them stories of how she was treated by her husband. “She put up...
  11. Opinionsgalore

    The aftermath of the verdict *MERGED*

    I think her decision to go public is ill considered, it looks like she's looking or sympathy for herself, and in doing so, she has refreshed everyones memory as to who she is - I think she can kiss her employment future goodbye.
  12. Opinionsgalore

    Who is GBC? An armchair psych discussion

    I don't KNOW what the criteria is for a trait vs disorder, but I will go out on a limb and say that having empathy could well be the deciding factor. Disordered ones lack empathy if they hurt someone they don't feel bad, they don't suffer guilt at having caused pain - they get off on it - they...
  13. Opinionsgalore

    Who is GBC? An armchair psych discussion

    It wouldn't surprise me if he was involved with men as well, it's quite typical for an N, to them we're all just meat *bleugh*.
  14. Opinionsgalore

    The aftermath of the verdict *MERGED*

    I have a legal type question. If GBC's legal team go for an appeal, is any of the previously unreleased evidence going to have any sway to keep GBC where he belongs ? It seems to me that disallowed evidence paints a far fuller and darker picture of who GBC really is, and the cruelty Allison...
  15. Opinionsgalore

    The aftermath of the verdict *MERGED*

    Exactly, spot on. I say thank God they didn't manage to throw out the face scratch evidence.
  16. Opinionsgalore

    Who is GBC? An armchair psych discussion

    That final sentence is the nutshell of how to pick them. Yes, funnily I'm grateful for the experience, because it taught me about myself and where I need to tighten up my boundaries, and gave me the opportunity to pass on valuable lessons to my sons.
  17. Opinionsgalore

    Who is GBC? An armchair psych discussion

    There are red flags. * telling a sob story very ( too) early * moving fast. They'll be claiming that the intended victim is unique/special/soul mate within days of meeting them * valuing/devaluing behaviour. Building the victim up, then kicking the stool out from under them * saying all their...
  18. Opinionsgalore

    Who is GBC? An armchair psych discussion

    Hmmmm..... I've posted about 3 replies in a row - I feel like an attention *advertiser censored* ;/
  19. Opinionsgalore

    Who is GBC? An armchair psych discussion

    Wow - just wow, great post !

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