YellowSubmarine
If we couldn't laugh, we would all go insane!
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I know there is a lot of discussion on her 17 y/o bf and I just want to clarify where I'm coming from. I am not judging the family or suggesting HE had something to do with this. No, his age won't help bring Kayleah home. My feelings on this are because she seemed older for her age and was engaging in activities older for her age, we have to take that all into consideration when coming up with possible scenarios.
My dtr will be 11 in two weeks. Our community is much smaller and safer than Kayleahs. I don't let my dtr leave our cul-de-sac unless she is with someone or takes my cell phone. If my dtr went missing -- I really don't think she'd get into a car with a stranger as she is pretty wary of people. I know I wouldn't have to look at older friends with cars. I'd look at the nearby school, parks and skatepark - not have to look at a mall or music store. I wouldn't have to worry about my sons friends because they all think my dtr is annoying (don't tell her, lol!). I wouldn't have to worry about men I may have come across while dating, because I don't. With Kayleah having an "older lifestyle", she may have gotten into a car with a stranger. She easily would've gotten into a car with an older friend or her bro's friend. There are other places she may have gone - movie theater, convenience store, diner, WalMart or decided to go to a different friends house. And with her older bro's friends hanging out at their house and probably men AW was dating, there are sooooo many possibilities. Plus, we don't know if she was aware of the SO's in her neighborhood.
My dtr will be 11 in two weeks. Our community is much smaller and safer than Kayleahs. I don't let my dtr leave our cul-de-sac unless she is with someone or takes my cell phone. If my dtr went missing -- I really don't think she'd get into a car with a stranger as she is pretty wary of people. I know I wouldn't have to look at older friends with cars. I'd look at the nearby school, parks and skatepark - not have to look at a mall or music store. I wouldn't have to worry about my sons friends because they all think my dtr is annoying (don't tell her, lol!). I wouldn't have to worry about men I may have come across while dating, because I don't. With Kayleah having an "older lifestyle", she may have gotten into a car with a stranger. She easily would've gotten into a car with an older friend or her bro's friend. There are other places she may have gone - movie theater, convenience store, diner, WalMart or decided to go to a different friends house. And with her older bro's friends hanging out at their house and probably men AW was dating, there are sooooo many possibilities. Plus, we don't know if she was aware of the SO's in her neighborhood.