She appears to have parented quite well, allowing for socializing and sports times for her kids, a truly selfish parent makes themselves unavailable, she knew ,too ,to earn those "parent points" that keep our kids from being "the invisible students". She seemed a little "ditzy", but that could have been the visible effects of post murder drugs. In nothing I've heard or read, have I seen anything that would take Patsy outside of the set of normal. I am an aquarian and can change with the wind, so I think I would have enjoyed her as a friend, I may have bought myself one of those studding guns and glittered up my jeans, I do so hate birkenstocks (they make me think I'm growing toe hairs..)that a little pair of studded denim heels would have worked great for me, even in Boulder.
My child ,being far more gorgeous, may have taken some pressure off of Jonbenet,however I doubt we would have been competing, we went for geography bees and such. I'm not above pageants, my family has had a few contenders, a current one just missed Miss Maryland, and the money she logged in over the years PAID for her college,(she earned her degree in May 2003!) Would I have ever let my child spend the night in that house? NO!
That is where we differ, I do not like open living, where other people have access to my children, no priests, no gardeners, no one unless I am "right there", not even distanced by the front yard. Patsy didn't kill her child, no Ramsey did, I see the killer was allowed access, clearly too many had it!
IMO