Justiceforever
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This thread is for questions about the Adult Entertainment Industry as it relates to this case.
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In the town I lived and worked in there was a horrific murder of an "escort" EB by a freak named Brandon Grady. He drove into town, went to Walmart purchased a sledge hammer and a buck knife, rented a room and called the very first service listed. A friend and I worked for this same service at the time. We were up all night waiting for calls from either that service or the service I ran. It was a blizzard that night, so as much as we wanted to make money, we kept blowing off the calls that came in.
EB worked for that service, and while I didn't know her, I knew people who worked with her as almost everyone networked.
EB showed up for this call and to make a long horrifiying story short she was hit in the head with the sledgehammer and sliced from rooter to tooter. The things he admitted doing to her are dispicable. The ME said it was the most horrific murder in the city's history.
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/1998-04-08/news/9804080040_1_mutilating-killing-sentenced
http://www.surroundedbyreality.com/Misc/Crimes/Spence.asp
This was ALL over the newspapers at the time, however now I can't find much. I suposse they are archived or something.
After mutalating her he wrote on her leg in lipstick "An eye for an eye, a life for a life"
He was angry with how other escorts had treated him in the past.
I wonder if the MV and the LISK might also be angry with women in the business.
I will NEVER forget EBs tragic death. It haunts me.
RIP EB
The BBM writing or message...sounds like he was "settling some perceived score." Maybe either a loved one or he himself was destroyed by this business or lifestyle. This was some sort of revenge-type killing. I doubt that he had a bad service or felt "ripped off."
*A story about Everybody, Somebody, Anybody, and Nobody*
This is a story about four people: Everybody, Somebody, Anybody, and Nobody....
...So I just did it
.......I have a question for you Moon. Have you advertised on Craigslist and used these forus? Howdoes it affect business when clients are critiqueing the providers on an open forum, based on whether or not they enjoyed your service? I mean this type of forum, back in the day, would have ground my service to a halt!
Justiceforever-
Thank you for sharing your past with us.
I don't think any less of you. The sex trade and like businesses exist, have always existed, and will always exist. Pretending that the people who work in these businesses aren't "real" people or shaming them into never telling their stories is a disservice to the people who do such work, investigations like these, and to society. It makes sex workers seem disposable.
In fact, I admire your courage to tell complete strangers online about your experiences. Your honesty helps fill in the gaps about the culture (of the sex trade) in which the victims were working.
I admire your bravery & honesty.
Oh, and if anyone want's to think less of me, Oh well. I found a way to survive while keeping my self respect mostly intact. I did it on my own terms.
Yes, that was my primary way to advertise. I never walked the streets or used any business, pimps, or services, although I have had close calls with people trying to claim me as 'their girl' aka, they were my pimp... no, not happening.
If you get a bad review, it of course probably only affects the people who visit that site. Most of the people on craig/back are people just looking for a quick get up and go. The ones in forums usually go off of other peoples word, but sometimes they also TOFTT (take one for the team, or meet a new, un-reviewed female).
I don't know if that helped or not, but I'm able to take questions pertaining to the internet portion of it. :fence:
Now let's catch the *advertiser censored*/s responsible!
You got me thinking. I hope I can word this so it makes sense. Not including SG, none of the victims had EFFECTIVE security measures in place at the time of their deaths. Unless you assume that the two male MV victims were connected to the female victims found in the same vicinity and, had to be killed, as a means to an end.I was always a independant provider. No pimps, or security, no working with other girls. It was always just me, myself, and some dirt bag. :what:
You got me thinking. I hope I can word this so it makes sense. Not including SG, none of the victims had EFFECTIVE security measures in place at the time of their deaths. Unless you assume that the two male MV victims were connected to the female victims found in the same vicinity and, had to be killed, as a means to an end.
How did the killer/s KNOW this? He/they HAD to have spent time talking to the victims ie.. many phone conversations, a few "dates". IMO he let them know he was uncomfortable with the idea of a "pimp" or "service" "driver". He wanted an independent provider.
For whatever reason, the women took the chance OR just didn't have reliable, dependable, effective security and felt safe (or desperate, to pay the rent, buy drugs, whatever ) enough to go with him despite this.
I know this has been discussed before, however I am now CONVINCED that the killer took the time (stalked) his victims to assure that he wouldn't have to deal with the hassle of a third party.
No doubt about it.