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    I started going back over the entire trial while I was sick with the stomach flu and confined at home, and I couldn't resist finally joining this site! After reading through all the messages, not only do I have a headache but I have come up with a theory.. its obviously a little late but...

    If you look at JA's dating history, she complains how they all cheated except Darrell.. but they all obviously called her their girlfriend and she dated each one of them for while. I am guessing that she was their girlfriend in their status on facebook and it was well known. With Travis, she couldn't get him to even acknowledge her as his girlfriend. And I think that was what rubbed her the wrong way the most.. and also created an obsession with him in her mind. It wasn't like that with anyone she dated before. Dr. DeMarte had it right when she diagnosed her with Borderline Personality., IMO. I don't think she was trying to climb her way up the ladder of PPL... I think Travis was the one she wanted, and she couldn't help herself going through his stuff and trying to ruin his chance at any relationship with another woman because she had done everything she could to find her new identity in him and the Mormon Church. At some point she realized that she was caught, esp. those last texts between them when he says to come clean. And she kind of alludes to the fact that she's sorry but emphasizes that she didn't slash his tires or steal his journals because she knows he could probably get a restraining order filed against her. I think in the end she killed him because she couldn't rationalize him not wanting to be with her, how he could want to marry another woman before even having sex with her. He wanted her out of his life, had all these plans, and finally was ready to move on. And she started planning the murder right after she realized she was caught making up Michelle and eventually that huge fight they had I think there was no going back after that...but that's just conjecture.

    I just saw other posts earlier in this thread pointing out that she was a psycho and probably just wanted to use him and climb the ladder at PPL or the Mormon Church, but honestly.. I don't think she killed him because she didn't want him to expose her, as she could have left him alone at any time after she had Ryan's number but she chose not to even make contact for a long time. She just couldn't let go, and I think Travis felt guilty because he thought his having sex with her was supposed to be for marriage and maybe that explained her behavior - the fact that he couldn't resist sex with her made him feel bad, almost as if he is the one who triggered this behavior in her because he couldn't say no and he definitely knew at a certain point early on that she loved him enough to marry him. She even writes in her diary at one point "TA said I would marry him in a heartbeat if he asked me. He must be delusional"... but the thing is, he was spot on.

    Borderline Personality Disorder allows someone to go from completely love to complete hate.. and maybe she really hated him for how he felt towards her and that's why she decided to kill him. In the end I guess we will never know...

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    Quote Originally Posted by indieisin View Post
    Borderline Personality Disorder allows someone to go from completely love to complete hate.. and maybe she really hated him for how he felt towards her and that's why she decided to kill him. In the end I guess we will never know...
    I think she hated he was sleeping w/other women/moving on, etc. BPD is an anti-social personality. She attributed the blame to Travis (he caused her to pinpoint her focus on him. Thusly blaming him for the hate she felt in her 30s (elevating her BPD and bringing along with it, a mid-life crisis - which is generally crushing). I personally think she was doomed to fail, no matter what people or "projects," she'd have lined up at that point in her life. Her psychopathic pathology alone would have done her in.

    She was trifling with other men before and during her time with Travis - she moaned about "men disappointing her" and "cheating on her" plenty enough at trial. BPDs avoid self-examination of their own shortcomings, in turn fulfilling their multi-faceted failure, I'm sure.

    That's pretty dangerous... never any responsibility. I think most BPDs are narcissistic at heart. A lot of these disorders are linked.. What do they say? All felons are narcissistic??

    She's the type that wants to set the world on fire...

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    Quote Originally Posted by indieisin View Post
    I started going back over the entire trial while I was sick with the stomach flu and confined at home, and I couldn't resist finally joining this site! After reading through all the messages, not only do I have a headache but I have come up with a theory.. its obviously a little late but...

    If you look at JA's dating history, she complains how they all cheated except Darrell.. but they all obviously called her their girlfriend and she dated each one of them for while. I am guessing that she was their girlfriend in their status on facebook and it was well known. With Travis, she couldn't get him to even acknowledge her as his girlfriend. And I think that was what rubbed her the wrong way the most.. and also created an obsession with him in her mind. It wasn't like that with anyone she dated before. Dr. DeMarte had it right when she diagnosed her with Borderline Personality., IMO. I don't think she was trying to climb her way up the ladder of PPL... I think Travis was the one she wanted, and she couldn't help herself going through his stuff and trying to ruin his chance at any relationship with another woman because she had done everything she could to find her new identity in him and the Mormon Church. At some point she realized that she was caught, esp. those last texts between them when he says to come clean. And she kind of alludes to the fact that she's sorry but emphasizes that she didn't slash his tires or steal his journals because she knows he could probably get a restraining order filed against her. I think in the end she killed him because she couldn't rationalize him not wanting to be with her, how he could want to marry another woman before even having sex with her. He wanted her out of his life, had all these plans, and finally was ready to move on. And she started planning the murder right after she realized she was caught making up Michelle and eventually that huge fight they had I think there was no going back after that...but that's just conjecture.

    I just saw other posts earlier in this thread pointing out that she was a psycho and probably just wanted to use him and climb the ladder at PPL or the Mormon Church, but honestly.. I don't think she killed him because she didn't want him to expose her, as she could have left him alone at any time after she had Ryan's number but she chose not to even make contact for a long time. She just couldn't let go, and I think Travis felt guilty because he thought his having sex with her was supposed to be for marriage and maybe that explained her behavior - the fact that he couldn't resist sex with her made him feel bad, almost as if he is the one who triggered this behavior in her because he couldn't say no and he definitely knew at a certain point early on that she loved him enough to marry him. She even writes in her diary at one point "TA said I would marry him in a heartbeat if he asked me. He must be delusional"... but the thing is, he was spot on.

    Borderline Personality Disorder allows someone to go from completely love to complete hate.. and maybe she really hated him for how he felt towards her and that's why she decided to kill him. In the end I guess we will never know...
    I agree 100%! After reading pages and pages of posts and getting a headache trying to figure her thought process I realized you can't figure out crazy. It boils down to she stalked and played games trying to manipulate him in ways that are hard for a normal person to comprehend. In the end " only the one that hurts you can take it away" she could get plenty of guys she wanted him and his rejection was catalyst. I've often joked about how if I don't even like a guy but find out he doesn't like me? Well I'm going want him til I get him. Validation. Because it's like you wonder why don't you like me want me? And your view of yourself depends now on their perception of you. It's like how people always want what they can't have but multiplied by a million plus crazy. Kinda scares me cuz I totally get her crazy. Just not the violence. I'm ashamed to say I've probably used to a lesser degree some of her tactics. Mind you I was married 24 years and husband left out of nowhere so I think I had a reason for temporary slight crazy behavior 😊 Thing is he seemed to care but her lies and games drove him away and Jody says when it's over no one else so she won the only way she could in the end. And she still tries to destroy his character. Had he gushed all over her she would eventually lost interest but he was a decent man who didn't realize the sick type of damaged woman he was dealing with. I feel dirty just reading her manipulative texts and being pulled into the world of Jody for a few hours. Can't imagine dealing with it daily. So tragic the best thing every one can do to someone like her is simply forget her she needs attention. I'll never think of that monster after this post. Just my two cents sorry for the ramblings good day all!

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    these clearly show an emotionally abusive relationship, he was saying these things to her because he wanted to go to cancun with the other girl, and he needed to push Jodi away for that time. it was one of those pull you in, push you type of relationship. he played these games with a few girls, he just made a mistake a played it with a psychopath this time, if he was sooooo hurt by whatever flirting he was referring too, why would he even being inviting Mimi to cancun? h



    he played games, she was more insane and she planned and slaughtered him for it.

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    that's a complete misconception of the mental disorder of BPD. BPD is not an anti- social personality disorder, its defined has "Borderline personality disorder (BPD), also known as emotionally unstable personality disorder (EUPD), is a long-term pattern of abnormal behavior characterized by unstable relationships with other people, unstable sense of self, and unstable emotions."
    borderline personality is not the same has anti-social disorder and it's usually caused by an early abandonment/abuse in early life so it's actually unlikely that, jodi does suffer from BPD. she is just a psychopath, not every murderer suffers from a mental illness, some just want to kill.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chymae311 View Post
    these clearly show an emotionally abusive relationship, he was saying these things to her because he wanted to go to cancun with the other girl, and he needed to push Jodi away for that time. it was one of those pull you in, push you type of relationship. he played these games with a few girls, he just made a mistake a played it with a psychopath this time, if he was sooooo hurt by whatever flirting he was referring too, why would he even being inviting Mimi to cancun? h



    he played games, she was more insane and she planned and slaughtered him for it.

    Yes, indeed-- an emotionally & possibly physically relationship, orchestrated & inflicted by a POS narcissistic psychopath who deliberately robbed her decent & kind but psychically wounded victim of everything that mattered to him, then drove a thousand miles to stab him dozens of times, shoot him, and slash his throat with such viciousness she almost decapitated him.

    About that BPD? No, no misconceptions there, just a spot on diagnosis by Dr. DeMarte, one of the best prepared, best qualified, most persuasive, & best witnesses to testify at either trial.

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