Jayelles,
Well the disparity between, her body as discovered in the wine-cellar, the status of her bed and pijamas, and the contents of the ransom note, are so striking as to suggest something is missing from the usual theories.
Lets assume Patsy knew ahead of time, that on the night of the 24th December, JonBenet was going either going to sleep in the spare bed in Burke's room, or even share his bed. She hinted she was aware of this possibility here:
http://www.jonbenetindexguide.com/1997BPD-Patsy-Interview-Complete.htm
ST: How about on the, uh, night of the 25th when you and John put her to bed, would it have been unlikely for her to have then moved to another location in the house to have slept, your bed or Burkes room?
PR: Yeah, it would have been unlikely.
ST: Okay.
PR: The reason I cant remember whether they, where she slept on the 24th were, not cause it seemed like they were conspiring about what time they were going to get up in the morning and I cant remember whether they, it seems like there, that she did, they did talk about her sleeping in his room, but I cant remember whether that really happened or not, but I remember they were conspiring about what time to get up and . . .
Patsy also underlines how aware she was to the possibility of JonBenet bedwetting, she cites this as a reason for disallowing her to sleep in Burke's room:
ST: And if, on occasion, JonBenet would go sleep in Burkes room would she get into the other bed.
PR: Shed be in, yeah.
ST: Okay. Um, what would cause that? That she got scared at night or . . .
PR: No, just, I mean, that happened very seldom and uh, I think, oh, I think one time when I reading to Burke and, she and Burke in Burkes room and she feel asleep in that bed so I just let her sleep there or something, but I didnt, you know, usually Id get her back in her bed cause she would, occasionally wet the bed and her bed had a plastic wrap on it and that one didnt so I . . .
ST: Move her to the other bed
In essence Patsy admits that in the past JonBenet has slept in Burke's room, she just had a memory relapse for the 24th and 25th regarding many details relating to JonBenet's homicide.
So if JonBenet slept in Burke's room on the 24th, then her bed sheets will be clean and dry for the 25th. Linda Hoffmann-Pugh stated the sheets were not the same ones she had placed on the bed on the 23rd, so its safe to assume JonBenet wet the bed on the night of the 23rd.
So its possible that Patsy washed the sheets on either the 24th or 25th, not realizing this might play a big role in an upcoming homicide.
Now using Jayelle's strict reasoning, since JonBenet's white longjohns and underwear were urine stained, then JonBenet had not emptied her bladder prior to becoming deceased.
This implies that JonBenet met her killer before she had the chance to wet the bed!
The ransom note suggests JonBenet was abducted from her bed, she did not answer the front door to her abductor, her parents state she was laid sleeping to bed, but her bed does not appear to have been slept in, her pink pijamas worn on the night of the 24th, remain under her pillow. Now if the bedding had been changed who would put her pink pijamas back there, why not wash them along with bedding?
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