Well, not that it's of monumental importance, but you're wrong regarding the part about children not being accepted into school if they have toileting issues. The public school system HAS to accept every child within their boundaries. Asking about possible toileting issues prior to starting school doesn't happen. However, if her "issues" in regards to toileting were indeed that major, why haven't we ever heard anything from the school or teachers? If it was a major issue, the teacher would know, the school administrators would know, and her fellow students most certainly would know.
"She openly had anyone available to wipe and change her all the time"----can you provide a link that states that JonBenet had whoever happended to be around wipfe and change her, and that it happened with such frequency that it could be termed "all the time????" I've never heard that. I've heard that she asked LHP before, but she was someone who had a relationship with JonBenet, was in the home daily. So, who are all these other people she asked to wipe and change her, all of the time???? You state that was "noted and of concern"----WHO noted it, and WHO expressed concern???Links, please.
Also, you say "the sheer numbers of soiled undies in the drawer" was a flag that went up. By using the term "the sheer numbers", it leads one to believe that there were many many many pairs. How many???? Where are you getting this information? Please provide me with a link....
Not saying what you are saying is wrong---it's just that so many things that are rumor have been turned into fact in this case just by a simple forum posting. Things get so twisted that sometimes the end result is the farthest thing from the truth, so when I read claims that I am not familiar with, I always like them backed up with a factual link. Sometimes those "factual links" have been links to other forum postings, LOL, which as you know, doesn't make it a "factual" link...