SheWhoMustNotBeNamed
Former Member
Missing Since: June 13, 1996 from Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Classification: Endangered Missing
Date Of Birth: April 26, 1984
Age: 12 years old
Height and Weight: 5'4, 113 pounds
Distinguishing Characteristics: Caucasian female. Brown hair, hazel eyes
Clothing/Jewelry Description: A white t-shirt with a ying-yang design and a red and blue patch embroidered on the front, blue jean shorts and a ying-yang necklace.
Medical Conditions: Dittmeyer may have sustained an injury to her left hand at the time of her 1996 disappearance.
Details of Disappearance
Dittmeyer was last seen at approximately 5:30 p.m. at her family's residence in Pick Wick Apartments in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma on June 13, 1996. The apartment complex is located on West Interstate 240. Dittmeyer was seen near the swimming pool, which is on the south side of the complex. Her hair was tied up in a bun at the time. Dittmeyer has never been heard from again.
Dittmeyer's stepfather, Benjamin Harry Crider Jr., was considered a suspect in her disappearance from the onset of the investigation. Authorities noticed injuries on Benjamin's body on June 14, 1996, the day following Dittmeyer's disappearance. Benjamin appeared to have human bite marks on one of his arms and bruises on one of his shoulders. He claimed he sustained the injuries while replacing the brakes on the car owned by his wife and Dittmeyer's mother, Tammi Jean Crider. Investigators took photographs of Benjamin's injuries and also examined Tammi's vehicle. Authorities stated that there was nothing in the car's brake system which would have inflicted the type of injuries they observed on Benjamin's body.
Dittmeyer's younger half-brother came forward two weeks after Dittmeyer vanished and told authorties that he wandered into his parents' bedroom on June 13 after overhearing Benjamin and Tammi arguing. The child claimed that he saw Dittmeyer lying motionless in the room. According to the child, Tammi escorted him out of the apartment and took him shopping afterwards. When they returned, Dittmeyer had disappeared. Tammi denied her son's statements. She has never been charged in connection with her daughter's case.
Benjamin was employed as a registered nurse for the Oklahoma State Health Department at the time Dittmeyer vanished. Authorities believe he carried her body to his department vehicle inside of a garment bag while Tammi and their son were at the store on June 13, then disposed of Dittmeyer's remains. Benjamin told authorities that he left their residence at approximately 4:30 p.m. on June 13 to return his vehicle to the Health Department. The trip from Pick Wick Apartments to the department takes 15 minutes; Benjamin claimed he returned to the apartment at approximately 6:30 p.m. two hours later. Authorities maintained that he could not satisfactorily explain his whereabouts during the unaccounted time period. Benjamin's supervisor at the Health Department told investigators that Benjamin attended a seminar on June 13 and handed in a travel voucher with an additional 100 miles added to his authorized driving distance. Tammi told investigators that she notice Benjamin purchased a new garment bag the day after Dittmeyer disappeared, which supported law enforcement's theory that Benjamin carried Dittmeyer's body in his old garment bag.
DNA evidence was discovered inside Benjamin's Health Department vehicle which was consistent with Dittmeyer's blood type. Blood stains were also located on the carpet, a table leg, a towel, jeans, a brassiere and on a bedspread inside the family's apartment. An empty bottle of hydrogen peroxide was discovered inside the residence as well. The peroxide could have been used to clean additional blood stains from the home.
Tammi and Dittmeyer's biological both took polygraph tests after Dittmeyer vanished. Benjamin stated he would agree to such a test, but recanted later and refused to participate. The Criders' two other children were removed from their home by Oklahoma Department Of Human Services (DHS) shortly after Dittmeyer's disappearance in 1996. Tammi and Benjamin separated afterwards. Investigation revealed that DHS had received five complaints regarding Dittmeyer's welfare from her infancy in 1984 until 1991, five years prior to her disappearance. The allegations of abuse detailed in the complaints centered around the caregivers employed by Tammi to watch Dittmeyer. The reports insinuated that Tammi was "neglectful" of Dittmeyer by allegedly ignoring the caregivers' problems. The DHS complaints were either dismissed due to lack of evidence or ruled out entirely. An unidentified witness told DHS that Dittmeyer was allowed to carry cigarette lighters in the early 1990's and that the child may have been responsible for igniting several fires in her neighborhood at the time due to her allegedly unsupervised home atmosphere. DHS could not discover any evidence regarding the claim and the complaint was dismissed.
DHS did begin a new investigation into the Criders' children's welfare following Dittmeyer's 1996 disappearance. Benjamin was charged with Dittmeyer's murder in 1998 and was convicted of the charge later that same year. He was sentenced to life in prison. Prosecutors believe he came home from work and found Dittmeyer in the master bathroom shower, which was against the rules, and that they argued and he killed her.
In October 2001, Benjamin's conviction in Dittmeyer's death was struck down by the Oklahoma Court of Criminal Appeals. He was retried in October 2004, but the judge declared a mistrial. In September 2005, while awaiting his third trial, Benjamin admitted to causing Dittmeyer's death. He said he struck her in anger and she died, and that he did not intend to kill her. Benjamin pleaded guilty to manslaughter. He was sentenced to ten years in prison, but since he had already been incarcerated for nine years, he was released only a short time after making the plea. Prosecutors stated they were unhappy with the arrangement but agreed to it because there was not enough evidence to convict Benjamin of murder.
Dittmeyer's body has never been located. Foul play is suspected in her case due to the circumstances involved.
Investigating Agency
If you have any information concerning this case, please contact:
Oklahoma City Police Department
405-297-1000