closeobserver
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Nobody on this site, including myself, knows you. But nobody in the world wants to see anything bad happen to you. Please accept this letter as "food for thought" and not as "you should know better".
It has been very well documented that Drew likes young women. His method it to shower them with gifts to impress them and flatter them. I'm certain that he must be doing the same to you. At 23 years of age, it is doubtful that you are used to being able to afford much "luxury" items such as what you are being given. Being given these things must make you feel special.
Nearly everyone struggles in their 20's as you are now an adult, but you have not had the experience yet to get the best job, nor have you had income long enough to afford you to be able to have money to burn. You probably have barely enough to get by....that's normal. Some day, as do most older adults, look back on these early years and appreciate what they went through. If you want to have those "later" adult years to look back on your younger years, run...run fast.
If you stay with Drew, you may have nice things now, but they won't last. After you stop getting gifts, what will you two talk about? What will you do together? Will you have kids of your own together? What kind of Father will he be to your children? Do you like the same music? Do you like the same TV shows? Do you have common friends? Do you have common hobbies?
If you do decide to make a go at it, test Drew by insisting on couples counseling before you tie the knot. If he loves you, he will agree. But he never will agree, and that should tell you something.
It has been very well documented that Drew likes young women. His method it to shower them with gifts to impress them and flatter them. I'm certain that he must be doing the same to you. At 23 years of age, it is doubtful that you are used to being able to afford much "luxury" items such as what you are being given. Being given these things must make you feel special.
Nearly everyone struggles in their 20's as you are now an adult, but you have not had the experience yet to get the best job, nor have you had income long enough to afford you to be able to have money to burn. You probably have barely enough to get by....that's normal. Some day, as do most older adults, look back on these early years and appreciate what they went through. If you want to have those "later" adult years to look back on your younger years, run...run fast.
If you stay with Drew, you may have nice things now, but they won't last. After you stop getting gifts, what will you two talk about? What will you do together? Will you have kids of your own together? What kind of Father will he be to your children? Do you like the same music? Do you like the same TV shows? Do you have common friends? Do you have common hobbies?
If you do decide to make a go at it, test Drew by insisting on couples counseling before you tie the knot. If he loves you, he will agree. But he never will agree, and that should tell you something.